If last night's experience in the Death Realm is any indication it can be a lot of fun when there are number of characters down there. My self imposed minimum stay is two game days. During that time my character can normally be found sitting on the stairs by the exit; offering to share her wine with anyone that passes by and trying to discourage them from taking death too lightly. What else can be done at the moment? In fact that seems to apply to most gripes on the forum.
My advise, at this point, is to do what you think is best for Role Playing or whatever the heck that may mean to you. Be open to those that have another idea; yet hold firm if you cannot agree; while trying to find a common ground to interact. Start being selective with those you wish to carry on a character relationship and RP with and start using the ignore if another's actions begin to upset you and draw you from the immersion of the game. The last option has not yet been used by me; though my finger is on the button at the moment.
Venorel places down her two tria and departs