lesson number 1: Arangmas are really fast!
I can tell you what I've done, almost 5 months ago.
for quite a week I run everywhere, listening to other players talkings about strange animals, curses, magical ways, practicing the GUI and discovering the magic of shortcuts, always observing all the monsters before approaching, talking with NPC (typing "tell me about you/Hydlaa/Crystal/anything") until I found a library. then I read all the books, so I finally had some clue about what I may encounter in my voyages. I was helped in many ways by other characters. they gave me better weapons, some good advice, even trias!. don't be afraid to ask for help, you'll find someone eager to help you.
try to Role Playing in your speakings, use the brackets while out of character, sheath your weapons while in Hydlaa, and you'll be fine.
but, always, be patient. this is not a game like others. and remember this is a... "forever beta" game, so expect the unexpected, and try to help the devs.
welcome in Planeshift!