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Gameplay => General Discussion => Topic started by: Atagal on December 03, 2008, 01:06:39 am
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Resent actions from the girl he loved did not just break his heart but destored it, there is nothing really left of him, he hurts so much and there is no reason I can find for him to be around, do you think he should be deleted or do you feel there is a reason he should be around, though he is my oldest char on PS (two years I have had him on PS)
Those who are his friends know how hurt him... She knows who she is too...
What happend is that she told him she would never break his heart and not even the next day she married some guy, Laliki truely believed her when she said she would not do that to him, he truely loved her... And well that is what she repaied him with was more pain then he has ever felt. He did not hurt this much when he last his two kittens.
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I deleted my character when my heart was broken also. I wished I had not done it. Please do not do it. Keep Laliki around. You never know what great things might still happen. Try to keep your head up and know you are a worthwhile person. Someone will love you again even if it seems unlikely now. Trust me things have a way of working out.
I wish you well.
Mathy.
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You could always request that the character's name be changed. Start anew, but keep your hard work intact. ;)
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You could always request that the character's name be changed. Start anew, but keep your hard work intact. ;)
I've been told that this isn't allowed unless you're suffering from severe harassment (and even then it's difficult).
Keep in mind that changing your name won't remove you from the buddy list of anyone who's added you. So the new character will look the same, and still be on all the same buddy lists, only people will see a weird name on their list that they don't recognize, and they might also notice that the old name is missing. It doesn't take much to put 2 and 2 together, so it's not really a fresh start.
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Just play with other characters for a awhile and remember that it isn't personal. I'm sure you will be able to enjoy the game like usual after awhile.
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I already spoke to you on this. But I don't think you should and I don't really believe you wish too. You could try a pilgrim as we talked about. That would give you a chance to redevelope you character, spiritually or emotionally or as you need. Allow you build a history from his journey into his personality. It will also allow you to take a break from him for awhile so you can work it out into the direction that you wish to play it out.
A pilgrimage, a walkabout, a life quest of some type (and I'm sure there are others from different cultures used. Are all used to enhance or change a current way of life. I'm sure there are others that could suggest similar methods, or even to help you develope one for your characters need or purpose in relation with the games surroundings.
Be inventive.
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Just jump off the Eagles Beak a few times until the pain goes away ;)
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Don't rush into deleting chars. If need be, play another char, forget Laliki is there at all, but don't delete him. He deserves a chance after all, no? And you don't just go and die when your heart is broken, right? It's a difficult time but only until it's over :P. Moreover, Morla just started to roleplay with Laliki :'(
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If need be Laliki take a break from PS. I did and during that time I wrote a story and it helped me feel better. You might want to try to do that. Putting your thoughts and feelings down on paper is very therapeutic. Though from reading your post you are very much wanted here so if you can please stay. You seem to have many friends.
Let us know what you decided to do please.