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Title: Apologies
Post by: Sarras Volcae on April 05, 2013, 06:02:44 am
oh god why did i post this
 « Last Edit: December 02, 2017, 01:18:14 by Sarras Volcae »

* EDIT *

For the record, starting when I was 18, a GM was trying to groom me. Didn't realize that was grooming until later.
He lied about me to other players, forced uncomfortable social situations, kept testing my boundaries, and tricked other players into thinking we had some kind of positive relationship.
That was not the case. I was creeped out, and I didn't agree with anything he did on my "behalf" during this time period. He also lied to me about his relationships with other players.
I did not know what he was doing until years later.

The GM was Tazen. I didn't report it until ~2014 when he started abusing his GM powers again.
This is as much as I will state publicly. I would like to say more. But no, I'm here editing an old post so no one will see unless they trace back to my old account.

I made a new forum account because I felt the 'happy and goofy' version of me needed to die so I wouldn't be targeted by creeps and jerks anymore.
Being banned from this game was often a relief.
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Rigwyn on April 05, 2013, 06:19:17 am
I call BS.  ;D
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Pierre on April 05, 2013, 06:32:23 am
Aw, I think she's on the up and up Rigwyn, and pretty decent of her too.  And Sarras, a message for you from Kokoli who says that the truth is your photos were totally adorable.

Try not to be rude now, just because I'm being kind.  I really mean it though, it's decent of you and the photos were adorable.  Cheers.   O--)
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Rigwyn on April 05, 2013, 06:36:42 am

Sarras is nuttier than Boy George ( bad visual... sorry  ::| ) 
I doubt it, but we'll see.
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Ebonwumon on April 05, 2013, 10:52:35 pm
super rad story you got there, bro.
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: gonger on April 06, 2013, 11:38:53 am
Hi Sarras!

Just make better use of smileys and there will be no need for apologies!  ;D

But joking apart, I appreciate your open and honest words. Life is not always easy, and I am pleased to hear that you are moving in the right direction.

See you around soon.

Gonger
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: MishkaL1138 on April 06, 2013, 07:24:37 pm
*witty joke about Sarras not being honest*
*apology to Sarras and good wishes*

/end_generic_message
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Roled on April 06, 2013, 11:15:27 pm
/specific  :thumbup: to Sarras
/generic   :love: to Mishy
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: yourcharname on April 08, 2013, 11:37:24 pm
no
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: cdmoreland on April 16, 2013, 06:06:32 pm
Sarras, I just want to let you know that you have helped many of my alts at different times. I sometimes pretend to be new just to see who helps others and you always have. Good to have you back. :-*
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Volki on April 19, 2013, 07:41:48 am
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Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Rigwyn on April 19, 2013, 07:51:41 am
Change. Don't just say, "I'm gonna change". Talk is cheap and change of this type is terribly hard. Changing yourself or your beliefs is much harder than changing your underwear.
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Volki on April 19, 2013, 10:13:02 am
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Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Rigwyn on April 19, 2013, 11:06:58 am
You get into arguments like this with people for a reason. Other's here are just not getting banned like you do and its not because they are favored or something. They just don't push the envelope quite as far as you sometimes do. Yeah, its fun to break people's chops and tease a little, but you need to know when to stop.  Sometimes I'm a real prick, but I do back off before the other person has a melt down or identity crisis. A little slap in the face is one thing, a kick in the gonads is another. ( Hey, notice I refrained from saying balls )

* cough *

Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Volki on April 19, 2013, 11:56:10 am
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Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Mouli on April 19, 2013, 04:46:34 pm
Bye Sarras... Have fun ! and take care of you
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: wither barebones on April 29, 2013, 04:12:51 am
I'm glad to see that your in the right track of being a good citizen of yliakum. But on the contrary... don't do a public post if you hate people seeing "private stuff".
Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Volki on April 29, 2013, 07:05:39 am
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Title: Re: Apologies
Post by: Drey on May 01, 2013, 11:15:41 am
sarras <3