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Fan Area => The Hydlaa Plaza => Topic started by: Kuiper7986 on March 09, 2004, 05:55:23 pm
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I could risk getting flamed, but it says sink here as low as you can, oh what the hell, if I get flamed then so be it, I really don\'t care what you guys think, anyways...
If your a guy how would you picture the perfect ideal female for you and only you. I mean how do you picture in your own opinion the most perfect female.
If there any female players here how would you picture the perfect ideal make for you and only you. I mean how do you picture in your own opinion the most perfect male.
Oh yah, don\'t post anything nasty okay? Lets try to keep it clean like somewhat \"normal to society\" people.
My opinion:
This female would have a lightly tanned skin. She would have hair exactly like Selphie from Final Fantasy 8. Her left eye would be hazel and her right eye would be green. She would be around 5\'8\" or 5\'9\". She would be trim \"to society\'s standards of slim.\" She would have her entire body completely smooth. She would have a relatively normal bust size because too big is kinda nasty. She would have long silky legs. Her lips would be like opal colored or light pink.
Ahh I have sunk as low as I can!
p.s: if a female like moogie or something would like to post, please do!
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to sum it up in a single word....Moogie :D
call me soppy and become a drip dried corpse -.-
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My girl would have a cute sense of humor of her own with a deep passion for all forms of music, and would occasionally sing with a voice as sweet as her personallity. I wouldn\'t care too much how she looked, just as long as she weighted less than 200 lbs.
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I couldn\'t care less about appearances, because they are only, literally, skin deep. My ideal woman would be insightful, amusing, and caring; and someone I can genuinely love (the word love is thrown around too much these days, that would explain the high divorce rate).
Too many people flame Kuiper for threads like these; lighten up!
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Someone spontaneous who doesnt think normally. Preferably artistic. I like tough women too, Im not keen on playing the macho hero type person.
Looks wise, i aint too bothered, im not a fan of blonde hair or really tall girls but other than that.
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My perfect partner is Seppie :)
Reasons: He knows how to have lots of fun. He has a good sense of humour and knows when it\'s time to start being serious about things. On the other hand, he doesn\'t take things too seriously.
Okay, so he\'s not the best speller. :P But he knows how to express himself. He has a good imagination. He\'s also my best friend... and I value friendship above and beyond any other human quality in the world.
As for physical things, I don\'t care about looks, but he ain\'t half bad. :) And then there\'s... \'other\' important things... ;) and anybody who says \'that doesn\'t count\' is lying through their teeth :P so I\'m lucky. Hehe. :D
TMI eh... sorry.
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After I saw that guide thingie about dead people, I just can\'t get my mind off this girl I saw yesterday at the morgue... :rolleyes:
rofl, j/k :P :))
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Originally posted by Xalthar
After I saw that guide thingie about dead people, I just can\'t get my mind off this girl I saw yesterday at the morgue... :rolleyes:
Hey, talk about a low maintaince girlfriend; you could do worse :P
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To me no man or women is perfect, in personality or in looks. Plus the fact that saying that a women is perfect is so shallow i really dont wish to go there. Some women I think are beautifull, and some I think have great personalities. I have not met anyone who is best at both and I doubt I will. However my ideal woman? Sure why not.
For some reason I like spunky spontanious women. I have no idea. Its probally because in real life, im a bore. I couldnt keep the relationship going if my life depended on it or i tried REALLY hard. i have no idea why. So I have come to the conclusion that i need a spunky fun person to be around.
But I have gone through many phases of ideal women. In fact i used to be a bit of a red head lover, then to blonde, then to brunette, and I hated short hair the whole time. Now for some reason I\'m into brunette short haired women. This whole post should be what women I find ideal at the moment. Heck for all i know I mght like grey haired women next. Its all up to the hormones really. So in conclusion to this completely unneccesary post I find a Short haired, brunette women with fairly chubby cheeks (not freakishly chubby) as my ideal looks for a women. Personality wise i really need to be around a firecracker type women, or im going to be on this same computer for the next five years munching on cheetos and coca cola....
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Well someone intelligent, with sense of humor. Somewhat twisted... so there\'s no way I would be bored around her :P
Should be determined too
Sharing same interests as me, as in into computers, anime, RPG and music... I suppose metal ;)
And simply good looking... can\'t say anything specific here.
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mmm I like a busty women :D no j/k actually I am not kidding but anyways instead of going into deep descriptions ill just give a good example Angelina Jolie!
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Someone who I can understand and understands me.
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sure davis sure. I am sure you have physical tastes you are just not naming :P
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Originally posted by DepthBlade
mmm I like a busty women :D no j/k actually I am not kidding but anyways instead of going into deep descriptions ill just give a good example Angelina Jolie!
ewww angelina jolie?! you know she made out with billy bob thorton right? yuck! they bragged about doing it in the car on the way to the VMAs or something, disgusting person she is.
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on the emotional side I like girls that are happy-go-lucky. ::Cough cough:: like Selphie from FF8 again...dOh!
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Originally posted by DepthBlade
sure davis sure. I am sure you have physical tastes you are just not naming :P
Yeah, sure, everyone prefers someone attractive. That\'s assumed.
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First of all, I will have to laugh at Kuiper\'s post. That whole one eye red, the other purple thingy just cranked me up, one word came to mind, and it was not the nicest in the dictionary, frankly, I dun think they publish those. Anyway, perfect girl, ah, one word... ALIVE. Nah, just kidding. I\'ve been throught plenty of relationships to say who I like. I think I am at that shallow point in my life, where I dun care for inteligence, and go simply for looks. Prolly not the person I\'d marry at some point in my life, but I am not looking for that right now. Although there is this really cute Mexican/Porchugies(spelling) girl in my organic chem class, but she is a cool friend, and I dun date friends.
Anyway, my only dislike about the opposite sex is, red hair. I hate carrot-tops, no offence to anyone who is a red head, or has coloured their hair red. Bad times, bad times... ;(
And that \"i dun care about looks thing.\" I think it\'s true, once you find the right person, you can look past that, way past that.
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Originally posted by whemyfield
awww.. a coochie coo a coochie coo... the general has a soft side, doesnt he! whos a good boy? awww...
Nothing else to post on is no excuse for idiocy.
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Someone who can put up with my personality flaws and quirks, help me and support me with my goals, and accept me for who and what I am.
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Like i give a damn if she kissed billy bob thorton! She is still hot! And yes you may not right up admit it but every guy looks for the physical attraction its in our nature!
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well this thread isnt just for physical looks. its for personality too. and since you didnt describe any of those and said that angelina jolie was an example of your dream girl, i am saying that your dream girl is horribly distastefull and a whore... :P
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to each his own...you love ophra whimprey i love angelina jolie , does it really matter :D
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oprah? *re reads the thread* nope no where... :D is that the best you could do? oprah? c\'mon...
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you could put aside all the fake plastic old looks of hers and think about how she is one of the richest people in the world
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if i wanted money i\'d go for paris hilton....
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lol how could you even call angelina jolie a whore when you just chose paris hilton buddy!
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because paris hilton at least sticks to men who arent 10 years older than her, and she doesnt make out with people all the time and brag about disgusting sex in public.
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riiiight sex is disgusting mmm yes I so agree....lets not go there :D! No Paris Hilton is a snobby little trash whore, and if angelina likes older guys so be it
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don\'t get into arguments with the forum troll... he\'s we-all-know-who
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right.. anyways i didnt mean that sex was disgusting, sex is great. but sex with billy bob thorton is disgusting.
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Originally posted by whemyfield
because paris hilton at least sticks to men who arent 10 years older than her
I fail to see the problem with having a partner of such an age difference.
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Me neither. Infact, that seems like a very good number. I\'d say the male needs to be at least a few years older - whatever it takes to get on the female\'s maturity level.
There is no perfect guy/gal until you meet one. The one. :)
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Hmmm ... there is no such word as perfect ... I mean as we know it...
Actually ... There are no perfect things without flaws... flaws make us \"perfect\"... so ... I would like fun woman who would be hmm ... about 160cm and pretty good looking (bah ... I am kinda stupid ^^). She would love the same things as I do and well ... Intelligence isn\'t bad thing ... Of course there should be some flaws because
flaws make persons more \"perfect\" and interesting ^^
Edit: Now call me guru >:|
Edit2: I wouldn\'t get even a corpse to date me with my charisma
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I\'d have to say someone who keeps quiet if she can\'t say something intelligent. I can\'t stand people who talk rot. Sadly most girls do. Plus girls are afraid of me;(. Dunno why?. [I even tried wearing a placard saying \"I DONT BITE\";):P.] So its pretty hard for me to find a girl.
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Unlike sep\'n\'moogla.
Which BTW reminds me:
Congrats guys.
You might think I was lying but many a time moogie after you told me bout TJ, I was on the verge of telling you to get together with sep, but since it was kinda a personal thing and moreover none of my beeswax, I kept my piehole shut. So it turns out I can read people pretty well and that immensely satisfies me. And the fact that those two are happy satisfies me a great deal more:). Good luck again:tup:
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Carrying on:
Plus the fact that girls are generally DOLTS does nothing to help the situation.:D
But joking apart the fact still stands that I am ill suited for romantic pursuits:(. So I guess I am pretty lucky that I have a girl that fulfills most of my criterions .She\'s pretty, not talkative, topped her class in high school and tops her batch at college. She\'s doing her masters in somestuff or the other right now. Political science or sociology or stuff. not sure. And she consents to almost everything I say (not that there\'s much to disagree with once I have spoken.;):P). So I guess thats the perfect girl for me. I have no inclination to look further since its too much of an effort plus i doubt my prospects:P.
Also Alucard. He\'s a wonderful queen of elves and he looks like a totally evil guy with a beard. What more can one ask in a woman:P:D.
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Aww Auran... that\'s really sweet. :) Although it kinda happened suddenly, for me anyway. Sep did fancy me for a while, but because we were best friends, he was terrified that if he said anything it would ruin our friendship. Only after I found out he liked me did I ever start thinking in the same way... Sep is one of those really \'awwwwwwww so cute, bless :D\' people, not someone you\'d usually feel passionate for.
...hey... why am I discussing my private life here. :P
*guesses she is just too happy to care* :)
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**sighs and whatchs his evil persona die a brutal death** ....dammit :D
thanks uncle jimmy such nice words ;)
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well ok maybe billy bob thorton or whatever is a old wrinkle bum but that doesn\'t make me not attracted to angelina jolie! bahh forum troll!
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Don\'t kid yourself Seppy son. At best you had a maniac persona. Evil is much beyond you and will always be since now you are associated with Moogla. Moogla on the other hand could have been evil with proper tutoring but then she wouldn\'t have been the Moogla I know and love.
BTW: Seppy since moogla doesn\'t like me anymore will that now hold for you aswell? Will you forsake your old uncle Jimmy as well? ?(.
Anywho I am happy that you are happy. I like to see people happy (as you might or might not believe). Especially if that person is Moogle. Take good care of her. I\'ll split your ear if she ever has any reason to complain.
See ya
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Originally posted by Auran
Don\'t kid yourself Seppy son.
*writes down the sentence*
thank you sooo much :D
anyway, don\'t you mean people that actually seek for love thru\' the internet? :P
I don\'t really see how falling in love is being a loser, no matter where did you meet the other half :P
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Different people find love in different places, they shouldnt be critisised for this.
And anyway explain to me why looking for love throught the internet makes a person a \'loser\'? Im in an arguementative mood.
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oh yea, just wanted to say that I don\'t share the \'loser thingy\' opinion. (I suppose that\'s obvious ;))
I heard the thing that people that seek for love thru\' internet are losers a lot
but being a loser by simply finding it is something I never heard before :P
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i used to think that those people were losers but im not so sure. I wont call them losers as i can see why and where they are coming from with the whole thing, but that doesnt mean its my kind of thing. First of all i HATE long distance relationships and when you find people on the internet, thats usually what it becomes. 2nd of when i play a game, its buisness first love and relationships 2nd. Except w/ ps because it has a great community and well, there isnt much else to do :P But when i play a game, im playing to get items, better stats and i dont care who gets in my way, i have been known to use people to get money, its no lie. I have a very aggressive playing style. I dont know if this will come out in PS though as I really like the community so far. But you never know, PS might turn into a regular mmorpg over night full of an army of noobies so i might just use em if i have to :P Well thats just about it.. *runs away*
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I think the common mistake that people who share the opinion of \'Internet love is for losers\' is that they misunderstand one thing: not everyone resorts to looking for love online. Half of them simply choose to, or it happens by accident. After all, you can\'t choose to fall in love with someone, you just do.
Online relationships are the ultimate test of friendship and bond strength. If you can survive with your partner for years and only meet up a few times, and still love eachother as much as ever, THAT is one truely special relationship, right there.
It also removes the physical side of a relationship which, I feel, can help two people in the long run. They can love their partner without caring about their looks or how they perform in bed. Sadly, something many people do, and think they love a person because of.
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but there is one thing wrong with that moogie. although long distance relationships are rewarding in the aspect that a person truely loves you and is not just attracted to you. Nothing can still be the same as doing things with your partner, interacting with them and talking to them face to face. The internet is really good at mimicking this, it can never come close to talking, touching, feeling and interacting with your partner face to face.
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Of course, I completely agree. But most people who are involved in Internet relationships don\'t plan on staying that way forever.
Or at least I don\'t, anyway. :) There\'s no point falling in love if you can never \'be\' with them for real in the end.
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OMG you and sep are gonna end up like those EQ relationship couples who fight after the other one doesnt protect them enough in game... lol i can see it now...
Moogie: Hey watch my back, theres a flood of trepors right behind me...
Seperot: Alright alright, geesh....
Moogie: Hey thier only 20 feet away, arent you gonna take care of em?
seperot: I said I\'m on it...
Moogie takes 20 points of damage from Trepor
Moogie: ARGH!
Moogie: Thats it im taking away your maturbating privilages!
Seperot: NOOOO!
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umm no whemy....just no
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lol :D I think I\'d punish myself if I was silly enough to think Sep would drop everything he\'s doing and rush to protect me every 5 minutes. :P
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You ought to be the one protecting him mog...*grins wickedly*
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Perfect Man- Me
Perfect Woman- Anyone lucky enough to have me.
:]
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Aendar, if your ego gets any larger it will pop like a baloon :P
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Oh my ego can hold quite a lot of weight. Trust me I\'ve tested it...it can get much worse than it is.
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I miss my ego, people seem to like ego ppl irl. Generally i hate em, no offence to any egotistical ppl but i think egos are causing the collapse of any morals left within anyone.
To answer what i was saying earlier about my perfect woman in terms of looks, I really really like the oriental thing and dark features, lol ya i have been thinkin bout it for past two days =)
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*sigh* your all horribly off topic. Shame... *rubs index fingrs tooghether* and this is coming from the forum troll... shame....
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Whemy, look at your previous post...
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i was talking about relationships, they are talking about egos. big differnce drak
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this thread isn\'t about online relationships
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i realise my post was ot but the point im trying to make is, that its gone too far and it needs to get back on track.
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Originally posted by AendarCallenlasse
Perfect Man- Me
Perfect Woman- Anyone lucky enough to have me.
:]
... roflmfao :rolleyes:
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Having self-esteem and confidence in one-self is not egotistical.
But...that doesn\'t apply to me...I\'m just egotistical. I mean come on....you saw my pic....come on.
:D
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My perfect girl would have to be able to understand me. We should be both interested in the same stuff but our personalities should just be total oppisites so that we can fill what we\'re missing. As for looks, she would have long hair, i don\'t care what colour , and blue eyes.
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having self-esteem isn\'t exactly the same as what you are \"having\"... I\'d call it a serious case of bloated ego :P
And you\'re right, I did see your pic, let me quote myself ... roflmfao :rolleyes:
:P
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Originally posted by Mogura
Of course, I completely agree. But most people who are involved in Internet relationships don\'t plan on staying that way forever.
Or at least I don\'t, anyway. :) There\'s no point falling in love if you can never \'be\' with them for real in the end.
Um I have met couples, who have met over the internet and got married Happily married. Actually off the top of my head there is 4 couples I have met on mirc alone that have connected from the internet :)
mmmm but then again you said most not all :/
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Um... someone that I can discuss stuff with. As unsophisticated as that sounds... I sometimes like to get into philosophical discussions. I prefer someone who can talk back and seem reasonable enough to make me consider their point of view.
The thing is, one can do that with a friend, so... I guess that\'s not so much a prerequisite for a girlfriend. Seriously, I think I\'d have a hard time \"hooking up\" with someone who wasn\'t already a good friend. I mean, maybe that\'ll happen (if I get desperate enough), but... I don\'t forsee it at any point in the near future. Of course, then you run into the problem of possibly losing a good friend if the relationship goes sour.
As for the physical aspect... I have to say that the first thing that popped into my mind was \"hair smell.\" I don\'t know why. For some reason, that just attracts me to a person. And it\'s more a function of the shampoo they use than some natural aspect of their appearance. There are other things as well, but I\'m not sure I could vocalize them properly.
Anyway. Internet relationships: I\'m all for them, but I feel that to really know someone I have to be able to meet them face-to-face from time to time. Oh well. That\'s not going to happen any time soon. ;)
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all of your descriptions sound just like me .....
j/k lol
hmm i dont know perfect girl is one that.... i can chuck a spaz at and wont run away lol and that i can whine to all day and that looks.. interstingly good...lol
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Ok I\'ll bite:
Physical ideal is close to her (http://web.tiscali.it/sensuale/Manuela_Arcuri02.shtml). (Note PG-13 pic here (http://web.tiscali.it/sensuale/Manuela_Arcuri01.shtml).)
Fortunately my wife looks a lot like her (with shorter hair), so I\'m in pretty good shape. :-)
-Venge
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Nice, Venge. Really nice. :) Although, I find her lower lip a little... big? Anyways, my idea guy would be somewhat like... Maybe a little... You know. :)
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Hmmm, I think it would be good for this thread if I posted my theory of love, the universe, and everything, but I\'m afraid it isn\'t quite finished yet. And I doubt it\'ll be done until \"Xandria\'s Tale\" gets finished. Hmm, I should probably start on that one of these days...
So, I\'ll make this brief since it\'s too late for me to be posting (although I think some of my best posts came from very late nights) by being overly cliche:
\"Perfection is often sought, though rarely achieved\"
Okay...that really doesn\'t work well for this post, and I don\'t even know where it came from.
See the problem is that we as human beings don\'t really know what we want. Sure, we *think* we do, but how are we supposed to know that the things we feel for other people are really what we assume them to be? If you don\'t understand the problem, there\'s no way to come up with a solution. It\'s like trying to find the value of pi to the exact decimal; you could spend decades trying to find your answer, but you\'d never get to it. You might get really, really close, but you know inside that there is no definite answer; you just have to take whatever you can accept as being \"good enough\" and continue with life.
Where am I going with this? I really don\'t know. Maybe no one should even be in a relationship until they\'ve met every other human being on the planet at least once. Maybe I\'m saying we should forget the whole thing and just like like monkeys. What\'s the difference? Are we just animals, or is there something more? See now we\'re getting into religion, which adds a whole new spin on things. You\'re given some general pointers on what love is like and you\'re supposed to accept that and try to make your way in this world. But again, how do we know what is really love? Does it even matter? In today\'s society I begin to think that it means less and less to the majority of the popluation, given the ridiculous statistics you can find out there. It\'s sad to think, really. There was a time when divorce was practically unheard of. If there was a problem between a husband and his wife, they would work things out and carry on, not divorce each other and start looking for somewhere else to go.
But that was then, and this is now, and we are forced to deal with \"progress\" as it could be so grossly stated. How man sacrifices have we made in the name of \"progress?\" Is it really worth the degradation of society we are seeing occuring all over the globe? Will it ever stop? How bad are things going to get until the notion of marriage goes from being merely a formality to becoming completely non-existant?
Why don\'t we all just start loving one another, and spreading kindness and goodwill towards all mankind (and womankind too)? Can\'t we put our physical desires away, all the possesions, the desires, the lusts, the greed? Just put it away and focus on finding our true selves, and the trueness in others? Especially a single partner who you can swear to love and hold for all time until death do you part?
Am I just a lonely fool?
I hope not, for the sake of the human race...
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Were never lonely,
I believe in this small world there will always be someone for us. Take this for example: I\'m just taking for example uhh lets take Whemyfield. See Whemyfield is sitting is probably sitting at his computer at home just serfing the net or something. But there\'s probably a girl somewhere in this world maybe in China, England, United States, or somewhere going through her daily routines, not knowing that one day she will be marrying Whemyfield.
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not knowing that one day she will be marrying Whemyfield.
may talad have mercy on her soul :P
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Originally posted by Xandria
*makes long and largely off-topic post*
These statistics are mostly representing a single demographic. Don\'t think about statistics. Think about people you know. Are they happily married?
In my opinion, the reason we do have so many marriages splitting up because people don\'t know why they love somebody. You love someone when you do a lot for them, not just when they do a lot for you. If both people weren\'t thinking about themselves, and were thinking about what they can do for their husband/wife, then it would most likely not end up in a divorce.
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Yes, that is pretty logical. People who has a huge ego are mostly very superficial and judge everyone by their apperance instead of their personality, which is what really matters because that is one of the things that makes us human.
This usually doesn\'t turn out well, because their superficial partners in their turn are mostly very egoistic themselves, and mostly they cannot stand each other because both see themselves as the \"perfect\" person, and by time, they are starting to see each others weakesses as well as their own, and then they find out that they dont fit as well as they though from the beginning. True love comes from your heart, and is nothing you can control, however your feelings can fool you, and you don\'t know if it\'s real love until you get to know the person better. I think that is the reason of many divorces. The couple barely meet each other and then they \"fall in love\" and marry a week later, but they dont realise their mistake until it\'s too late.
Hmm, the topic yes...
Appearance isn\'t very important for me, as long as she can accept and like me for who I am, and respect my opinions in they same way I respect hers. She should be soft, understanding, deep and reliable. She should also respect my privacy, and have the same full faith in me as I would have in her.
Also she should share my perspective on life, have similar interests and be comforting when I\'m feeling down.
The chance for me to meet someone like that in real life is propably minimal, but who knows? :)
Also I would like to say gongrats to Seppie and Moogie. I\'m glad things turned out as they did. :]
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even with all the people who like to search deeper than just physical appearace, it\'s pretty hard not to. Its just instinct that we look at physical appearance. Think about about it. I mean I\'m sure all of you know what I look at first when I see a girl, it\'s hard not to do that but you know...it\'s just natural. I understand the that idea when a person shares the \"some\" of the same interests for you and really appreciates for who you are but when it all boils down to it, you\'d appreciate that person if he/she is more physically attractive to whatever you define \"beauty\" as.
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...and we come back to our animal roots. It\'s all about getting the best fertile female that will ensure the passage of progressive DNA...
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Why is it more valid to insist that your ideal mate is smart than that they are attractive? You are merely looking for good offspring-material and being well-formed physically is a valid thing to want for your kids. Anyway, I think most of us understand that this thread is about the physical aspects because things like being sweet and smart and honest and compatible are a given.
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although vengence has spoken i have a bit to dissagree with there. compatibility isnt really a given. i would say good looks really are more of a given. some people dont completly like compatablity as it gives and edge or spark to their relationship taht stirs things up. sometimes as they say, opposites attract.
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you know, sometimes I wonder how humans are. Sometimes when I see a certain girl for the first time I say ehh, but then after a while I start thinking, \"ehh, she ain\'t bad looking.\" It\'s like its weird, first you think he/she isn\'t good looking, but when you get a second look, you go wow not bad.
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actually im quite the opposite. usualy i look at a girl and think \"dang she fine\" then i talk to her for 3 minutes and she already seems less atrractive, maybe in personality, but somtimes also in physical traits. i dont know maybe im wierd that way...
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Originally posted by whemyfield
usualy i look at a girl and think \"dang she fine\" then i talk to her for 3 minutes and she already seems less atrractive, maybe in personality, but somtimes also in physical traits. i dont know maybe im wierd that way...
Some would describe that as the \"soft-rendered-view after having drunk too much alcohol\"-effect which wears of after some time :P
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All the above that you guys mention are part of the theroy of evolution now iam a big fan of darwin and if you want to agrue evolution with me, we can do it till the cows come home ! any way materialisum (sp) over rights this basic law
truth is if there was a rich 90 year old dying person and a Poor but hot 20 year old we would choese the 90 year old dying person some goes for you girls ! (then when the old persons dies the smart ones will re-marry)