hello newcomers!
i hope this message can help you out. in my own experience, only very few people have ever refused to help me when i needed guidance and i'm sure for you it should be no different. now, i haven't played that long but i do go out of my way to help noobs a lot. however, here are some major problems i've come across in doing so:
1.
Who are you and how do you know my name???Â
Please introduce yourself and rp. Don't just come up and interrupt a conversation with "how do i get experience?" or, even worse, "give me a weapon". it's plain rude and probably won't get you the help you need.
2.
If you ask a question, please wait for an answer before walking away.Â
Many answers go beyond "yes" and "no" and you probably want to hear them. so, typing them takes a bit... wait please. leaving a conversation before the other person has a chance to talk back is also rude. yes, some players may ignore you but sometimes, there's a reason for that (they might be afk, rping something or their characters are just not the helping kind and they rp as that). when you talk to strangers, check their description and check if they are alone or in the middle of something (it's pretty easy to tell).
3.
depending on the kindness of strangers...Â
yes, you can get lucky and someone might help you out A LOT, giving you not only information but equipment and money. this isn't the rule. you should not expect that from anybody and, most importantly, you should appreciate what they are doing for you. YES you might need all that stuff so asking for it sounds reasonable, but unless your character was actually born to beg, don't go asking people to give you stuff. there are many other ways to get things from other players.
4.
if you find that you dislike the game...Â
don't go saying that it's stupid or that all who play it are. it's childish and annoying for those who do enjoy it.
having said that...
what puts me on the best disposition to help (for nothing in return) is:1. when they are polite.
2. when they talk in character and are willing to roleplay.
3. when they don't barge in but check descriptions first and choose a good time to engage in conversation (if you have to interrupt a group in the middle of roleplay because nobody else is around when you need help, try saying "excuse me" or "i do not mean to interrupt" or things like that before dropping your questions. greeting might also work. generally those who roleplay more are those more willing to offer help).
4. when they appreciate my help (as in, they pay attention when we're talking and they thank me afterwards. NO, saying "OK" is not the same as saying "Thank you").i don't think i ask for much so if you don't approach me having this in mind i'm probably gonna limit my help to the minimum or even ignore you completely and i'm not the only one who sees things this way. finally, in my own experience, i've learned and received many more things roleplaying than begging or using OOC conversation. i suggest you do the same because it works and it's a lot more fun. i don't mind at all answering /tells afterwards and it's always nice to hear someone you helped is now helping others. i hope you take this in mind next time you're on and need a hand. see you in yliakum!
zhai
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