Ok, cool, thanks for the advice Illysia and Rigwyn. I think for me I will lean towards asking myself what my character would feel/want to do in general before deciding which direction of actions to take.
Would they be mad, sad, scared, bored... and then go from there... and try to be true to things as if this world were real...
sometimes it feels as if there is a difference attempting to RP a character in a world... verses attempting to RP a character in a RP game... get's tricky.