Ok, here I go.
1) No need to delete it. Use two times unstick (click two times the shortcut) and you\'ll be sent to the Death Realm. Try also the /who command to see GM online, and tell them if you don\'t move still, or write a petition so they can move you. If you really want to erase one of your chars, at char selection screen there\'s the option to do so (lower right part)
2) You should contact an administrator to see if they can change your name, anyway, there are lots of unused accounts and noone really cleans the database, so I guess you\'d be told to start a new one. Anyway, I think there\'s a report command, I\'ll try to use it and see if someone can accomplish your wish.