I believe I have agreed with your main comment about stats and balancing. I know, because I have been told in other forum topics, that this is going to be worked out. We are 0.4 of a potential 1.0 final release... you are going to have to deal with some of these issues if you want to play PS in it's current state.
As to the stats and training... there have been at least two, three if you count Prolix suggestion, alternatives mentioned here for training stats so that it isn't just finding a trainer and clicking "buy next skill level" a few dozen times.
If you have not read many of the forums, it is not a matter of being scared of the term "enforce". That word is used a lot of times in other forums when people are just ranting against the PL crowd. It appears that you did not mean it in that way, but that is why your post met the response it did.
Hope you can either look past this, or join the team to make PS more enjoyable for all of us.