Not that it is important but as best I can remember it was others on DOX who suggested or wanted to let X into the guild now and we can do the oathing ceremony later. When you are in a guild run by a majority vote not much you can do if you are out voted by the others to allow something like this. One of the major reasons I left DOX was the changes going on in the guild, having a member with weapons drawn at an oathing ceremony in the garden, weapons drawn in the guild house, fighting in the guild house, even a killing in the guild house. None of this would have happened in my opinion back with the original group of DOX.
But as said above I'll play and enjoy the game as I see fit and let others do the same, just as long as others don't try to dictate to me how I should be enjoying the game.