When I started out, I didn't know anyone who role played. I knew a few who said they did, but in hindsight, they really didn't - but I had no way of knowing that. If you can find a dedicated role playing guild, then that's a great way to get started and immersed. A few good places to meet role players include Kada El's, the Stonehead, and the Red Crystal Den, possibly Brado's in Oja (I don't know.. I'm never really there). You just need to be patient and hang out for a long time. It also helps if you slap up a simple character description. I usually don't bother approaching people who don't have a character description. The lack of one tells me that they most likely do not role play.
If you enjoy crime, dark themes, spying and stuff like that, then gimmie a tell if you see me in game!
Whisper Bless!
Rigwyn