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eldoth_terevan

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Re: She said no.
« Reply #60 on: November 06, 2006, 05:22:35 am »
Thank you, Bilbous for that timely and concise advice. Advice in relationships is an entirely different beast though, and often that beast can turn on you. I mean, this is all IMHO, but I wound up with a girl I went to HS with ... almost twenty years after I last saw her. It was just wierd how it worked out. There was no seeming rhyme or reason to it, just a serious of random coincidences that put us back together. So you never know... the important thing really is not to close oneself off from new experiences. If one thing goes bad, make the best of it and keep on trucking.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #61 on: November 06, 2006, 05:59:50 am »
Quote from: zanzibar on November 06, 2006, 05:01:45 am
The girls who know me as a "nice guy" become friends of mine who aren't interested in my romantically.  The girls who know me as a jerk ask me out to strip clubs.

I don't see it as a good thing, but it is what it is.

This is part of what I meant in my earlier statement.  I would've never though a girl would want to go to a strip club and hang out there, but since I graduated high school they seem more eager to go then I am...

As far as nice guy syndrome goes I can't really comment on...I've definately never been accused of being too nice.  But you can't always be a jerk or it gets old, fast.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #62 on: November 06, 2006, 08:50:37 am »
Quote from: Kiern on November 06, 2006, 05:59:50 am
This is part of what I meant in my earlier statement.  I would've never though a girl would want to go to a strip club and hang out there, but since I graduated high school they seem more eager to go then I am...

The ones who asked me to such locals were girls I knew in highschool.  Since then I've tried to get to know "nicer" girls... and have had worser luck because of it.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #63 on: November 06, 2006, 11:20:33 am »
If you find a girl you like, you need to be kind towards her, depending on the type of person she is. Some likes romance, others like dirty hot flirt talk. I'm not saying you should speak like this to get that girl... but that a girl you like probably will get up with you if she likes the way you speak to her, mind it romance, dirty flirt talking. Just watch out that the waterfall you let out won't end up in a bad dark sea of toxic waste which will tear out the rainforest from which the waterfall origins.

Hope you understand this, I'm having difficulties explaining this.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #64 on: November 06, 2006, 08:37:36 pm »
I must stop this!!!  :surrender:

You want a girl now...  :flowers:
but then when you get her... believe me...  :thumbdown:
you won't want her anymore calling you and shouting because you "forgot" to call her, or argue if you "don't look" her pretty dress.
Sometimes its a nightmare... darn! so much work...

err... hummm... yes dear  :-X
Yes... yes, I'm done now...
Ok, don't get mad with me... no, becaus... wait a ... m... no... ok...
yes... ok... yes, dear... ok.

Well, I have to go now...

think about this. ;D
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #65 on: November 06, 2006, 09:04:58 pm »
That's why most of the women I consort with are the type who understand "They do not think like me and they can not, so I should be forgiving (if he is.)"

Maybe I'm lucky, as it is true that I haven't had to really deal with a high-maintainence type.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #66 on: November 06, 2006, 09:08:46 pm »
Or maybe you just haven't met the right sort of oddballs yet who do think like you ;) That's when things get really fun.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #67 on: November 06, 2006, 09:23:05 pm »
Ok, seriously.
I'm living with my girlfriend right now, and it's awesome. I'm crash on her!

I was joking (or not) about that mad girls who think the world turns around they... I crossed with one or two... but was just it... a single turn and ... goodbye.

I'm trying to say that you can meet many girls and be rejected many times like an empty bag, but don't despair... the right one will come, and believe me... will be The One.

Silvana...  :love: you!!
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #68 on: November 06, 2006, 11:11:31 pm »
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Just watch out that the waterfall you let out won't end up in a bad dark sea of toxic waste which will tear out the rainforest from which the waterfall origins.

Hope you understand this, I'm having difficulties explaining this.

I don't think you have any difficulties explaining that. :)
« Last Edit: November 06, 2006, 11:41:36 pm by eldoth_terevan »
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #69 on: November 07, 2006, 12:00:53 am »
I would be a fool to pursue her after this right?

Am I suppose to take her commitment to her friends as a nice excuse, and a polite way to say no right?

what other meaning could it have.

I would hate to be one of those mates who cant take a hint.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #70 on: November 07, 2006, 12:14:34 am »
Eh. Personally, I would take it as it is. She had prior commitments and didn't want to break them.. There's no point in taking a hint from it that may not be there, although maybe back off a little for a while just in case. Perhaps if she's interested, she will come and ask you somewhere else to make up for it.

But then, I have no experience dating women, so..
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« Reply #71 on: November 07, 2006, 12:25:15 am »
taking a hint is for the weak and not the trendy.

Look at me, I still think Karyuu and Xordan's relationship is just Kary trying to make me jealous :P

Just be there if she changes her mind, don't advance too far on the friend line, but don't dissapear.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #72 on: November 07, 2006, 12:29:13 am »
Exactly, be in touch...
Hi, when you cross her in the corridor.
Nice hair! another day.

That's the question... to be AND not to be!
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Quote from: Nurahk on November 07, 2006, 12:25:15 am
Just be there if she changes her mind, don't advance too far on the friend line, but don't dissapear.

good luck!

Edit:
Oh! or you can invite her to play Planeshift, you will know her a little more (OOC ovbiously) and you will be always a step ahead, teaching her, and guiding  :thumbup:
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #73 on: November 07, 2006, 02:07:46 am »
Do not listen to these people's advice.
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WiseKran

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Re: She said no.
« Reply #74 on: November 07, 2006, 02:43:52 am »
Advice from forums is useful, I do read what everyone says, and I appreciate responses.

but I take it selectively. 

I read it all, I take it all in, and Then I select what information I deem suitable, and what information may be corrupted by too much internet/forum lurking. heh
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