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She said no.
« on: November 04, 2006, 07:27:02 am »
So I've been hitting on this one girl for a while now, always liked her.

and I finally asked her to the semi formal, it seemed like it was going to work out, heh. but girls..  She hit me with one of those "I promised my friends id be going with them, thank you so much for the offer though"

I guess i just have to take that as a thanks but no thanks. heh.   I feel empty now though.

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« Reply #1 on: November 04, 2006, 07:35:48 am »
Welcome to the very lonely club and somewhat depressed club. We have t-shirts.

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« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2006, 07:38:52 am »
Oh ohh I volunteer to do t-shirt design!!

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« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2006, 07:49:33 am »
You're married. Go away.

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« Reply #4 on: November 04, 2006, 08:50:05 am »
I'm guessing you're still in high school.  Trust me, it's much much better once you get to college.  Once they get away from their parents, girls go crazy.  I don't pretend to understand it...but I'm not complaining.

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« Reply #5 on: November 04, 2006, 10:05:35 am »
So I've been hitting on this one girl for a while now, always liked her.

and I finally asked her to the semi formal, it seemed like it was going to work out, heh. but girls..  She hit me with one of those "I promised my friends id be going with them, thank you so much for the offer though"

I guess i just have to take that as a thanks but no thanks. heh.   I feel empty now though.


Maybe you should have talked to her like a human being instead of just hitting on her.



I'm guessing you're still in high school.  Trust me, it's much much better once you get to college.  Once they get away from their parents, girls go crazy.  I don't pretend to understand it...but I'm not complaining.


Uh.... I knew plenty of "crazy" girls while I was in highschool.  I know a lot of crazy women in general though.
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« Reply #6 on: November 04, 2006, 10:31:56 am »
He never said he didn't talk to her aswell, Zanzi

And

There are exceptions to every rule.  I'm pretty sure Kiern ment more crazy.

Perfectionist :P

And the emptiness will pass, besides, every rejection just makes you more appreciative of acceptance :P

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« Reply #7 on: November 04, 2006, 10:42:22 am »
I'm pretty sure Kiern ment more crazy.


I don't think you have any way of knowing that.
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Re: She said no.
« Reply #8 on: November 04, 2006, 10:51:33 am »
Hi,

Aye, "no" hurts. Remember though that there's more to life than the opposite sex. In some cases you can even gain more by being just a friend than by being a boyfriend. Finally, I think we're all a bit crazy in one way or another.

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« Reply #9 on: November 04, 2006, 10:55:44 am »
Ok, first of all, she didn't say no. Don't twist words as you desire mate. Though, fill me up with more details and I might help you with some useful advices. I don't understand what you mean by:

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I've been hitting on this one girl for a while now, always liked her.

Be more precise. What did you actually do? Because you know, acting like "just another" may put you in that "them" category. It matters so damn much how you speak with the girl, how you behave when you’re with her. Be different than the others, let time flow, don't push things. There's always "tomorrow". Talk nice to her, impress her, blow her mind and she can come under your spell. Even so, all girls are different, but if you’d watch carefully you’ll see that they’re all the same at one point ‘eh.

:innocent:

Also, don’t show her you’re mad about her, mehh, that will just make her distant towards you, slowly but sure. More? Don’t know, waiting for your details...

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« Reply #10 on: November 04, 2006, 02:19:13 pm »
You're crazy cherppow XD
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« Reply #11 on: November 04, 2006, 06:54:46 pm »
I'm guessing you're still in high school.  Trust me, it's much much better once you get to college.  Once they get away from their parents, girls go crazy.  I don't pretend to understand it...but I'm not complaining.

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« Reply #12 on: November 04, 2006, 07:01:02 pm »
So I've been hitting on this one girl for a while now, always liked her.

and I finally asked her to the semi formal, it seemed like it was going to work out, heh. but girls..  She hit me with one of those "I promised my friends id be going with them, thank you so much for the offer though"

I guess i just have to take that as a thanks but no thanks. heh.   I feel empty now though.
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« Reply #13 on: November 04, 2006, 07:08:58 pm »
I'm guessing you're still in high school.  Trust me, it's much much better once you get to college.  Once they get away from their parents, girls go crazy.  I don't pretend to understand it...but I'm not complaining.

so very true ;P
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« Reply #14 on: November 04, 2006, 07:20:31 pm »
Heh, I recently was turned down by a female friend of mine (in an nice but honest manner); though ironically it has made me feel a stronger bond to her. 
I have a number of friends who are female, but I can't seem to get any closer to any of them.  Oh well.
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