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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #105 on: December 05, 2006, 07:27:12 am »

LOL, amazing, out of six replies, you were the only to get it, my bad, I should learn to keep my posts really short ...

Nah just use a  >o), a  :o, a  :whistling:, or some such thing to give a clue.
I'll do that next time, thx  ;)


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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #106 on: December 06, 2006, 08:23:12 am »
Don't you think that the game already has a 'defence' against people with an aversion to roleplaying? The fact that Planeshift is still in the earlier stages of development and does not have all of the features of some of the bigger MMOs out there means that many of these non-roleplaying gamers may be drawn away from Planeshift because the real attraction (at least for me) is the community, rather than the game itself.

Sort of a 'n00b filter.' ;)

(As an added note, I am thirteen years old.)
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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #107 on: December 06, 2006, 12:30:55 pm »
(As an added note, I am thirteen years old.)
As an added not, don't your parents care that their thirteen year old boy spend hours and hours playing a game with complete strangers that also happen to be 10 or even 20 years older then the him?

Did I see someone doing the Moonwalk?   ;D


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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #108 on: December 06, 2006, 02:26:26 pm »
Well no, Eublepharis, because:
a) I don't spend hours and hours playing the game, and
b) My parents appreciate that I am able to take care of myself in an environment "with complete strangers that also happen to be 10 or even 20 years older then the him"

Completely unrelated to Eublepharis (not sarcasm), I wonder how people might have seen my post had I not mentioned my age?
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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #109 on: December 06, 2006, 02:53:25 pm »
(As an added note, I am thirteen years old.)
As an added not, don't your parents care that their thirteen year old boy spend hours and hours playing a game with complete strangers that also happen to be 10 or even 20 years older then the him?

Did I see someone doing the Moonwalk?   ;D


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« Reply #110 on: December 06, 2006, 03:08:04 pm »
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There are 50 year olds playing this game.

And 60 year olds.

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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #111 on: December 06, 2006, 06:31:13 pm »
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Completely unrelated to Eublepharis (not sarcasm), I wonder how people might have seen my post had I not mentioned my age?

That I wonder as well, indeed.

Just today I heard another discussion about blacklisting all the FPS because they "make people violent" and so on. (Maybe not everyone knows that in Germany already two guys went berserk with guns in schools killing people and both played FPS).
I have played such "bloodthirsty" games as child (with 10? - can't quite recall exactly the age) and I know the impacts on the psyche very well - yet I never killed people and whatever.
My point being is that games are just another ressource of experience. And experience inherently modifies the psyche - whether child or not.
The important part is that experience has to be filtered and handled. This is crucial in this discussion. Especially children (as they have fewer lifeexperience obviously) need to be taught how to handle this new experience - whether by friends, parents or in school.

A child has to know what information can be given out and what NEVER should be given out (like address, passwords, etc.) and that if ANYTHING strange happens it should be told to a trusted person in RL.
Children are not stupid beings. They often only lack the information they need to make the right decisions (but this often is also the case for grown ups - just take the many uneducated people who open .exe files with the name "best photo of the year" and whatnot).
As parent it might appear easier to decide over a game for your child by the amount of blood shown, exposed body parts and so forth. But most of these criteria are nothing but trivialisations for the sake of making an easier decision. What really makes the game - the intention and ideas being associated aren't obvious at first sight, but this is what should be really the core of the decision.


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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #112 on: December 06, 2006, 07:28:54 pm »
Quote from: Smorgasbord of Pie
Completely unrelated to Eublepharis (not sarcasm), I wonder how people might have seen my post had I not mentioned my age?

I don't think anyone can have an answer for that question unfortantly. I did however like the answer you gave about your parents and you playing planeshift ...... it was great. I didn't think it was very fair to assume your parents possibly don't care because you were playing a game with strangers. You are obviously not five years old and can handle talking to strangers.  ;)

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To add to kerols post .....

I think the only reason why people blame violent games and movies for childrens behavior is because they failed to provide a good example to their children and can't admit so. These are parents who are letting their children play for hours and hours on end and not taking the time to show interest or explain some of the images a child will see. Children are smart and if talked to will develop a healthy attitude and out look on life.  I shall give an example, though it isn't with voilent video games.

Right now in my daughters (she is five) school there are these dolls called "Brats." The site link Every little girl has to have them.  I have told her I won't buy them for her. She asked me why and I explained that I don't like the image they send out to little girls. I told her I think it is sick tht they paint up the baby bratz dolls with make up to look like adults and feel that they are trying to make young girls grow up a little to quickly. I don't think they dress approprietly either. My daughter asked me if I would throw out the bratz doll if someone bought it for her for her birthday or christmas. I told her no, that it was her own choice if she wanted to keep the doll. I wanted her to understand that I wasn't going to force my opinon on her but that I wasn't going to support something I didn't agree with. We were window shopping the other day and she was looking at the bratz and barbie dolls. She looked up at me after viewing the dolls and for a moment I felt bad and told her if she really really really wanted the bratz doll I would buy it for her. (What she has those love me I am so cute eyes. My morals and opinoins can't stand up to that sometimes :P) She smiled at me and and told me no. She said "I think you are right mommy, these don't look like little girls. I think I would like barbie instead because at least she acts her age." *Zorbels takes a moment to chuckle*

She is around little girls who constantly brag about what bratz doll they have now. She heard my opinion and and theirs then made up her own mind regaurdless of what I felt or the peer pressure of the little girls who have a million bratz dolls. It is up to your child to make these choices but providing them with information and you opinions as parents helps. They look up to you. If my daughter wants to play planeshift at age ten alone I think I will let her because what she has shown me is she is capable of making sound decisions (for now but that could change ... who knows?). I will just have to go over some ground rules with her and trust she will come and get me if something isn't right.

I don't think planeshift should be restricted to people above 18. I have meet some awesome teens that blow my mind away when they roleplay. To take that away from planeshift would be to kill the community in my humble opinion.

[edited] Edited to correct a mistake.
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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #113 on: December 06, 2006, 07:46:03 pm »
I think the initial post raises valid points and I do not want to see them summarily dismissed. A disproportionate number of talented rpers are older, and more of the difficult players are younger. Education maturity and innate RP talent all play into what makes a good rper. Planeshift will not be going adult only. However, players should be aware there is effort being put into promoting and encouraging RP as well as game features to train people regardless of age how to play a character in Yliakum. As always, patience is needed for the many good ideas to come to fruition. Most people who refuse to RP do eventually quit Planeshift, if the question is whether tolerating obnoxious folks of all ages for the 2-5% who can be “redeemed” and turned toward beginning the long road to learning to be a good role player and create good stories is worthwhile, my answer is yes.

Should PS support RPers primarily? Yes and it does, and will more so as time progresses.

More can be done and is being done. I doubt there is a way I can assure players that their voices are heard or that the developers are working around the clock to better PS. I can however make the attempt. We do verily trouble ourselves over how best to support RP and provide opportunities for those who come to PS not knowing how to RP to learn it.

The “for all ages” thing will not change but we can work toward other methods of facilitating good immersive RP. You can pm me the player name of the person who blew you off when you tried to help them and I will make the attempt however foolish it might be to teach them to RP. Some people are not ready to learn RP or have no desire this is just true.

Dowanger and I are friends have been since he began I helped him throughout his training and him and I practiced dueling quite a bit before he won Proglin’s tournament. Initially, he never really learned how to RP, and never seemed to care too much for it. He just wanted to be the best duelist in the game. He accomplished that. I have not been able to get him to RP, (perhaps he is now I have not been IG for some time) but I have made great strides toward getting him to respect other people’s roleplaying. He is not a child neither is he unintelligent. At one time he may have been a detriment to several people’s immersion (he outright refused to speak IC OR use brackets for a time) but this does not seem to be the case as much anymore. Regardless of how Dowanger behaves or behaved, he has given many hours to people, both RPers and non teaching them how to become better duelists. This willingness to teach others to me is an asset to the game and should be coupled with a willingness to learn RP. Dowanger has at points asked for help learning to RP. Many of his early indiscretions or his dismissive attitude toward RP at the beginning haunts him now, but I do not know how much they should. I for one am glad he stayed and now displays a willingness to learn RP.

Roleplaying is a complex skill I have been doing it for 17 years now, 16 by the time I got to PS. In PS, I have been called a godmodder a pler and a poor RPer here and there due to subjective criteria of some players. RP in PS in a way that reflects the settings is very difficult. When you couple that complexity with the need to understand the histories of players and player events to be a good fit for the community, you have an incredibly daunting task for a random person of any age who happened upon PS. It took me months to get to know the books, the npc dialogues, the history of players, the forums, IRC, all vital elements of RP in PS at this point in development.

Very few people know how to RP well enough to teach it to others. The common set of instructions given to a new player by older players is not sufficient to teach this elaborate skill. Many good RPers are not good teachers. Many people are intuitively good at RP but do not have the linguistic proficiency to pull it off well. Many who think they RP well do not. Many who think they RP poorly do not. Almost all of the above can be alleviated at least to a degree by turning our eyes inward and focusing on building our own skills to match the needs of this wonderful game.

As for intelligence, I think PS community already has an IQ advantage on other games.
I further believe this will increase over time. The fact PS it is cross-platformed is a huge advantage in this regard, as it promotes a reduction of tensions and elitism based on ridiculous matters of which OS beats which other OS. The conversations even about the topic of OS are more civilized, intelligent, and not so pseudo religious as I have encountered elsewhere. I believe that the need to RP to be accepted in the PS community aids this by providing a criteria for success in this community that is related to English literacy, acting ability, and knowledge of the settings levels out all other arguments fairly effectively.

PS is and will remain a self-selecting community.

I encourage patience as opposed to frustration, suggestion over complaint.

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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #114 on: December 06, 2006, 10:17:26 pm »
A chance in rating would not mean necessarily that younger children wouldn't play or that they should get banned.  It would only serve as a waning to parents and also give more freedom to the devs and gm's.

You can ask, How would the GM and Devs enforce such rating?  Well think of movies that are PG, as oposed to movies that are rated R.

Are all the R rated movies nasty with sex and violence all over them?   Nope.
Are younger children allowed into theaters were R rated movies are shown?   You bet as long as they meet certain conditions.
Would a parent scream at the Theater owner for allowing her young 13 yo boy into a R rated movie?    Of course, but the owner can say that they do all they can to prevent children for coming in, and it is the parents job to keep tabs on their child, not the theater.

How can a free, opensource, running on a charity server, game like Planeshift enforce the rating?  Simple, have some warnings in the download page.  And another in the players manual.  The rest are up to the parents.


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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #115 on: December 06, 2006, 10:22:02 pm »
Warnings about what, though? We don't have anything that would warrant a rating above "PG," and we don't feel any need to create content that would raise it.
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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #116 on: December 06, 2006, 11:01:54 pm »
Warnings about what, though? We don't have anything that would warrant a rating above "PG," and we don't feel any need to create content that would raise it.
There was a thread about the "bugger" word, that was something above a "PG" rating.
The RPing aspect of the game is above a "PG" rating.
The content today doesn't have anything offensive, but are you willing to restrict the development so it will never have anything above it?
The fact that beer is served in a tavern.
The fact that there are guild that rp robbers and certain cases even drug dealers.
The fact that the kids might get solicited.
The fact that parents will one day come to you (as they always do) and say that since this is a PG rated game, you should always provide an environment were their 10 year old can safely play.
The fact that this is not a commercial game (maybe it will be one day?) and so, it doesn't absolutely have to grab the largest amount of players available expecting to get some cash or other type of support in return.
The fact you wouldn't have to spend as much time babysitting as a moderator.

Those are just some I could think of, no doubt people could come up with more...


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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #117 on: December 06, 2006, 11:13:52 pm »
I babysit "kids" that are into their 20's and 30's. In all my time as a moderator, the problems I have had with individuals around the age of 13 can be counted on one hand.
This will never be a commercial game. We want to grab a large amount of players because we like large amounts of players enjoying what we have to offer.
Ten-year-olds can already play safely in PS, and there are many that do. Any offensive language or public behavior is stopped - and there are far worse things parents need to watch if they let their children go on the net even before they reach PS.
You want a warning about kids perhaps being solicited..? That's a danger with anything online. Again refer to my point above.
There are Disney movies with robbers and murderers.
How is beer in a tavern in a medieval fantasy game a problem? What parent is going to find that a problem? Please get them and their kids out of our game immediately.
We do not want stronger "adult" content. You're not going to see it. This is the position of the dev team, and of the project leader.
That bugger thread was the most ridiculous thing I've seen in this forum this year. Neither I nor any other member of the dev team consider it an offensive word, and Xordan offered to get it changed to stop people complaining and driving each other mad.
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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #118 on: December 06, 2006, 11:47:53 pm »
Zorbels, you and my wife are of the same mind, that's why my daughter never got Barbie dolls.

I think that trying to limit ps to a certain age group wouldn't work anyway and then would leave everybody with the false conclusion that anyone you meet must be an adult. Kids are clever, they are much more sophisticated than many of their parents about computers and have access to them all over the place. Even if the parents have placed the computer at home where they can watch their child's activity, libraries have computers or there is always a friend whose parent's aren't watching the computer. There is no absolutley safe place I can send my child too. Are the boyscouts absolutely safe, church groups absolutley safe? There are too many examples of cases where children in those groups ended up in trouble. And those parents thought they were doing all they could to keep their child safe.

I haven't seen anything in ps that kids don't hear about or see most days. If they haven't they are probably home schooled with no telvision, no friends and no computer.

I have to respect the ps devs and gms for being proactive when they become aware of something that they consider inappropiate. That is the best we can ask of any community wherever. For those people who complain that this means they can't adult rp and it cramps their style, I have to say the same thing that I have head said over and over. This is free. If you want a place you can rp on "adult" topics you won't have to look far. Unlikely it will be free though.

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Re: Are Children Mature Enough to RP? Why worry about "for all family"?
« Reply #119 on: December 06, 2006, 11:54:20 pm »
There's always group channel for the times your character wants to snuggle with their significant other.  Just put the two characters close together and go to group.  You have fun, and it doesn't bother anyone else.  :)