Everybody understands that you are displeased, Gag. And many can understand why. But, you must realize that you are being foolish.
The worst case scenario: Somebody else buys the house. We both know all that would happen would be Lolitra being slightly displeased and moving to a new house. You're inability to drop the subject only makes others believe that you doubt that Lolitra is flexible and that you believe she may put her own feelings before the progression of the game.
The Devs could have spent time checking every single house to see if it already had an 'owner' or, they could spend that time developing the game. As a fan of PlaneShift I prefer the latter, as should all fans.
Lolitra would not suffer much from having to move to another house, give her more credit than that.
She appreciates your concern, Gag. But, let the subject rest

It is over and bringing it up will only extend the period of your shock and, unlike a simple moving of houses, could in time bring detriment to Lolitra's health. I'm sure she of all people does not like seeing you thus.
Note: This can be taking a few ways. I hope you see that I am chiefly concerned with your happiness. Parts of it are harsh but, sometimes a friend needs to hear harsh words.