But the reason I RPed Larili as annoyed more than hurt
Oh, yeah, I keep forgetting: don't take my comment on “bad RP” as some slight or deprecation. I don't mean to sound high and mighty, or to make it seem like a bad RP is result of a personality defect on the part fo the roleplayer, even if it is caused by a lapse of their immersion.
There's a little adage I'd like to share — indeed, I think i've already done it here in some earlier post, — and then I'm done:
Everything that happens in RP, is RP. Inconsistencies happen even in our world and with our personalities; maybe our Ghosts in the Machines have off–days too.
Furthermore: ‘Bad RP’ isn't always caused by a single player.