He's lucky he didn't run into one of my characters...
My thoughts exactly.
I do take an objection to threads like this, because with the title being as it is and the lack of elaboration in the op, it comes across as being a rude, unwelcoming, targeted attack, and for someone who doesn't know Waesed, it might seem like he's just being mean. The irony is not lost here.
Yes, there is a fine line to walk when you play an abrasive character. I know. I play one. My suggestion to the other players of caustic characters is not to be OOC towards nooblets, but to find an IC way to interact with them that is not OOC for your character. My girl is a heinous witch, but when someone new comes up to her, one of my things that I do when I think I have a noob, is I offer them a chance to make some tria by getting them to do nefarious things. I've paid new characters to steal from well-known players, to spy on people, to run silly little errands that my character would find demeaning to do (like picking mushrooms). There's quite a few things that even the most evil character can corrupt a poor, innocent newbie into doing. And the best part... it opens up RP avenues. Case in point? One of the ways Tesh and Travosh really started talking was her "hiring" him to steal a black falchion from Marsuveus. You'd have to ask Trav how long it took him to actually GET the darn thing. But a lot of RP was involved.
For someone in Venorel's situation, just some ideas: She's a priestess of Talad. If she's injured, she can ask a new player to help her up to the temple of Talad, giving him directions and a bit of the layout of Gugrontid in the process, and then offer him a reward for his help at the end. It gives RP, and the same type of "reward" to the player, in the form of armor and tria, but it also lets Ven stay in character while she's injured.
Granted, things like this, hindsight is 20/20. It's always easier to think up what you "might" have done. But good RPers are on the lookout for ways to keep their characters involved, keep them true to themselves, and ways to LEARN through the RP process. No one is perfect. No one always has the best ideas. But the difference between a good RPer and a great one is a dynamic adaptablity that is free from the stigma of elitism.
I suppose why things like this thread bother me so much, is that while one new player might've considered never coming back, I know at least two players who have played for 3+ years who were ready to leave over the nattering dramafest that erupts on the forum. Players who have been a strong, noticable presence over the years, who have been welcoming to so many new players in that time, who are so tired of the crap that they would just walk away to not have to deal with the censure. Oh, and neither one of them is Zalya.
I don't have anything against Waesed, but I'd really like to see issues like this handled in a more productive and constructive way.