I haven't called you names or anything of the sort and if you don't want me to keep replying it might be a good idea to not keep refering to me by name even.

  I don't believe I have called you a name either so why  did that come up? No wait don't answer that ....  Anyway enough already. Your post says what the rest of them do. You haven't made any new points. Just the same one over and over. Again I say, find someone else to over analyze. My point of view still stands and I still feel the same way as I felt when I first posted in this thread. Had I known you would flip out over certian words I might have used them differently. I was never trying to offend anyone and had stated so a couple of times. Get the point already as you seem to be the only one offended.

What happened in my eyes: I posted my opinion, you Pestilence followed up with a post I felt was rude explaining that maybe I shouldn't say those things in that manner as people might take offence. I posted a response explaining why I felt that way so that people WOULDN'T feel offened. It should have been left there.

Either way Cyl is right if you would like to continue this PM me otherwise just let it go already.

I am sorry if you percieve me as being rude Sarff, but I simply don't see it that way.

Yes I am being direct and don't beat around the bush on what I think about this matter. But if you start of calling people disturbing and say people have issues you can hardly expect them to turn lovydovy on you. Not agreeing with you and pointing out you are using vocabulary that might be offensive to some people isn't rude if thats simply the case.  It's also not saying that you can't voice your opinion it's simply pointing out this is a civilized forums where we respect eachother. Just as you have the right to say you feel I'm rude.

I think it's strange however that you seem say I can't point out that you shouldn't talk about  people in such a manner, but you do seem to think you are allowed to say I can't voice my opinion about it becuase you feel it's rude towards you.

Your not the only one who doesn't beat around the bush, join the club. Your last post seems to be still directed to my first post. I guess you won't be able to understand until you move past the first post I made and read the following posts to come. I have addressed your issue but you ignore it. What can I do if all you want to do is focus on basically two words. Oh wait I know what I can do ... I can give you a new sentance to focus on. ~points down to the bold text~ That one sentance should be enough for you to see that I wasn't trying to offend.

Pestilence I do have respect for people and again your words show me you didn't read a damn thing I said.  I explained my point of view in the last couple of posts. If you couldn't in the posts see that I  meant no disrespect and just made some good points ... backed up my point of view, then I am sorry you did not seem to get where I was coming from.

Anyway, Zorbels perhaps I was to abit to quick to say people could have issues. Who is really to say? Indeed you are correct. I still feel that way though. I think it is unhealthy. I apologise for my choice of words if in fact anyone was offened besides Pestilence. I do not however take back the disturbing comment. I meant it when I said ...

The person on the other end could not be who you think it is. I think that in fact is DISTRUBING, especially since this game allows minors.

Wow, you can sure tell a story. I have never sat still this long and not once was my attention lost. From the looks of things it seems you plan to write more and you can bet I will be here to read it the moment you post it. Great work! 

  I love my mom. I bought her a dishwasher this year. I thought she deserved it as she is getting on in the years.

 Happy Mothers day to all the moms in PS. Your job is probably one of the hardest in the world. Personally I think all mothers should get a paid day off to spend with their kids.  

You see that is where I have a problem. Hear me out. You look at the picture and automatically assume that is who this person claims to be (look like)? Don't get me wrong maybe they are the person you see in the digital image but how do you know that for a fact? You hear their voices over messanger or other programs through chat, so it is safe to assume that everything they say is truth or close to it?

In my point of view I do not believe everything I may see and hear online. I think that is being very open minded. I can also appreciate that you have your point of view Waylander, as does this Pestilence guy/girl. That too is very open minded. We all have different perceptions of how we see things. 

Also, this is a roleplaying game is it not? The moment you drop your walls and let someone know the real you by showing them a picture, or telling them your age ... you begin to lose the fantasy of the game. You begin to mix RL with RP. You may not do this on purpose BUT it still happens. So you confuse the two and end up falling in love with some parts of the character and some parts of the RL person. How do you know what is which. Hence my comment on falling in love with text. You never really know, as far as MY point of view is concerned if this person is in love with you .... or you in love with them till you see their face, and read their body language. It is to easy to hide behind your monitor and tell people what they want to hear. I would like to think we are all good people with good intentions, but I don't like to lie to myself. I would like to believe this pretty woman in my group box, telling me that she is so happy she found me. That she cares about me and wants to meet me some day. "We have so much in common!" She will say. Again maybe it can happen, but I wouldn't believe it until I meet her. I wouldn't know how much of my in game character she fell in love with. Maybe she would be disappointed to find out that wasn't the real me who was confident in character but has low self-esteem in RL. Maybe I find out she isn't the sweeti she seems with her words and in fact is a self centered person, who likes to control. Should I be cursing the text I fell in love with then? But again I will say ....

I am sure there are some exceptions as there always are ......

I am not saying that it is not possible to fall in love with someone from planeshift. How real is it, and has it ever happened? I don't know .... do you?

Wow if people fall in love with fictional characters in the game, these people have some issues.  Personally I think I would like to see the person in real life before I even think about giving my heart away. This is a game, it is hard for me to understand why people would fall in love with characters in the game. That is just distrubing. I am sure there are some exceptions as there always are but come on .... falling in love with text? Yikes!

  Wow that was quick. I love it, and it is exactly what I asked for. Thanks! ~hugs~

 Well it was my first day in planeshift today, and I have to say when Zorbels told me this was a friendly community she wasn't joking. Amost everyone I encountered was very helpful and patient. I want to say a few thank you's to those who helped me. 

Stellub: a special thank you for going out of your way to show me to the NPC who sells armor and offering to assist me with anything I may need. You were quite helpful. 

Tairan: Thank you for teaching me how to /me. This came in handy when I got my butt kicked almost by a clacker. I /me kicked it in the butt back once I figured out how to fight. 

Failda: Thank you for saving my life. If it were not for you I would have jumped into the dungeon. You were very pleasent to speak with and answered many of my questions.