ok, well i am mostly around the starting town that an elf goes to. I am in the  US Army, and have a newborn at home so that is what takes up my time. i explored a little bit and found some stuff I can kill and i scan the forums while I feed the kid.
thanks for the input from those with something worthwhile to write. I didnt know this would be classified as a spoiler so my bad.
and on a side note, any time i ask people in game they ignore me. I hardly ever see anyone on though in the first place. is there a certain time that the servers are more densly populated?