Sheesh Phinehas, if I saw a bit more of the Arcane Brotherhood running around in-game, I think I'd have to join.

Congratulations on your well thought out guild, and good luck with it!

Waylander, if a girl likes you in the first place, she\'s interested in you.  Unless you turn out to be a complete jerk, or you don\'t keep up your end of the relationship, she\'ll stay interested in you.

But if she doesn\'t stay interested in you, you move on.  Life doesn\'t end with the end of a relationship.

And Dorbian, I would think that your kiss method would send the message that all you\'re after is the \"benefits\" part.

Waylander, I think you mean that you have to keep the relationship interesting.  There\'s better ways to do that than lie...

Ah ok, I like that definition better.  See, love can exist if it\'s one sided.  It just doesn\'t go anywhere.  But it does get better if it is two sided.  I agree, wholeheartedly.  Much better.

Actually, I think that\'s probably the hardest part in all.  Not just finding a boyfriend or girlfriend who likes you back, but letting it grow.

Actually, that just happened to me.  We liked each other, but then it stumbled.  Gosh, why do girls have to be so difficult?

Oh, and another thing.  Back to Nightstalian, telling the truth is important in ANY relationship.  I think people value truth more than the comfort of a present relationship.  Besides, it makes her see you in a different light, and people love drama anyway.

How so, Karyuu?

And, I just noticed Acraig\'s Ladder Theory post.  I personally think that\'s just bull.  No offense Acraig.  Girl\'s are just like guys, mostly.  Only, our society teaches guys to be afraid of rejection.

Seriously, ladder theory is basically saying there\'s only one type of girl, an inflexible kind.  People joke about it, but then some take it seriously, and never go out on a limb because of it (or something else like it, like, the belief that your friends will laugh at you because you like someone).

Just be open, flirt (as Seperot says), have fun.  Then when you get a girlfriend, learn all of her idiosyncrasies, and make sure she knows you care (one form of caring is to not smother her with your affection).

Edit:  Wait, you\'re right, Karyuu, those are two different kinds of love.  I still think your definition is wrong, though.  Needing an outside confirmation of an inner feeling is just a method to make sure that you won\'t get hurt.

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Originally posted by Levski
To Zanzibar:

/me has been here for a LONG time...

And I sure hope Faldie looks in...

When did I say that anyone else hasn\'t been here for a long time?  When did I say that I have been here for a long time?  I\'ve just challenged dorbian\'s assertion that I should know and expect his pattern of behaviour.

No no no!  Don\'t get me wrong, I meant the command \"/me\" has been here for a long time.

Cyl, sometimes there is nothing wrong with the tail wagging the dog.

What I mean is, it is often good that guilds pay attention to newer members, and help them out while they are first starting.

It\'s a sad day indeed that the gates of Ordo Illuminatis swing shut and are locked.  Hopefully, someday you will be able to proudly unlock them.

The former members of Ordo Illuminatis will always be warmly greeted wherever they choose to go.