Best Friend Syndrome

[zorbels]

Originally posted by dorbian
Woman are hard to figure what they want, they somehow can handle their hormones better then men,

Yes we maybe able to control our hormones but not our emotional state at times .... Can we say ..... Rollercoaster ride.

[Levski]

Waylander, if a girl likes you in the first place, she\'s interested in you.  Unless you turn out to be a complete jerk, or you don\'t keep up your end of the relationship, she\'ll stay interested in you.

But if she doesn\'t stay interested in you, you move on.  Life doesn\'t end with the end of a relationship.

And Dorbian, I would think that your kiss method would send the message that all you\'re after is the \"benefits\" part.

[zanzibar]

Originally posted by Karyuu

Originally posted by zanzibar
I mean, let\'s say you have a certain look.  And a girl asks you what\'s wrong.  You can either say that there\'s nothing wrong with a smile on your face, or you can pour your heart out on the girl.  Which do you think is more attractive?

Pour your heart out - if she\'s doing the \"What\'s wrong?\" line just as that courtesy gesture our culture has imprinted onto us with no meaning behind it, tough luck. If she genuinely cares, it\'ll show.

And it\'s even more important if you are in a relationship together.

Bah.  My personal experience is different.  The less I give, the more interest others show.

[dorbian]

Originally posted by Levski
And Dorbian, I would think that your kiss method would send the message that all you\'re after is the \"benefits\" part.

Not really because i am that kind of guy, so are some of my friends, we can even do that with other people\'s girlfriends as long as you keep your tongue in your mouth, and it doesn\'t last longer then 2 seconds :p

You can make it seem that it is friendly instead of loving friendly, the matter you say it and the matter you act afterwards have alot to do with it.

And there are always better ways to figure out how or what, i just know that this one is personally a good one

I do know that alot of woman are as shy as alot of men, and they both don\'t have the guts to tell to eachother what they think about eachother.
If you take the chance, it can happen that he or she is saying yes, if you don\'t take the chance at all, you might never know.

And even if you hear a no, they are flattered and might even eventually like you more, as they will check you for things they do and don\'t like as in partner ( you always have the exeption that someone really doesn\'t like you for a relationship, nothing you can do about that i\'m afraid ).

all by all it\'s really hard to see what people like and what not, everybody is different and reacts differently in those situations.

All is good untill they tell you NO... You\'re to damn ugly.

-Dorbian

[Jazeera]

I actually tried telling one of my best friends, that I was in love with her, the sad outcome was that she ignored me for a little over a half year... now we just pretend I never said it, and are still rather good friends.

So, I would say that one should be able to at least try to predict how the other would react to such a \"statement\" I think you could call it... but then again, not all girls are like her

[Waylander]

Your friend sounds bloody cool.  If I knew her I\'d tell her I loved her

But no, few girls are like that, atlesat through the teenage years...most overreact

[nightstalian]

since aparrently my statment from the last forums didn't transfer I'll tell it to you now
 we're friends again, I think she finally relized what it meant to have somone "love" her

[zanzibar]

since aparrently my statment from the last forums didn't transfer I'll tell it to you now
 we're friends again, I think she finally relized what it meant to have somone "love" her

That's just the thing, love means a lot of different things.  Even when it means the same thing to different people, it can mean something different.

[Kiern]

  Even when it means the same thing to different people, it can mean something different.

I haven't read anything else in this thread because the title scares me...but I found this sentence to be amazing.  Couldn't help but comment.

[zanzibar]

  Even when it means the same thing to different people, it can mean something different.

I haven't read anything else in this thread because the title scares me...but I found this sentence to be amazing.  Couldn't help but comment.

   Explain yourself.

[Lilie]

I seem to be trying really hard to find love  . Then when I think I have, it blows up in my face  . Love has not done me any good  .
Mmmm but at least I keep trying. *sighs*

[Waylander]

psssst, it's because it doesn't exist

[Izzy*dot]

Oh well it does...it only just tries hard to hide itself

It's done me something very good, but it took a while to get there

[nightstalian]

LAST POST EVER
          My computer is just to old, and the game refuses to run smoothly but before I go, I shal leave on a depressing note.



What if you found out that everything bad in sombodies elses life is only able to be connected to you? What if by just living you are a pox to the person you love and chearish?
Am I one such person I do believe so, so I lay this at her feet and gave her the burden of deciding.
 Whatever she chooses she'll be in my prayers( yes, I used a religous thing but it's my last post so I care very little aboout you banning me ) till I die

That is aall the lost, the lovable, and ever so annoying
               Nightstalian.

Ps. Goodbye, You have something special so keep going. and lastly a good comun.

[Karyuu]

We're not going to ban anyone for mentioning religion... That would be very silly :}

Good luck with your endeavors, Nightstalian. I hope everything works out for the best.