Meren, In joining a guild, you should choose carefully, a family with ways and beliefs which match with those of your character. It seems to me, at least from reading your post, that your character has far more to offer the Planeshift community than it is currently allowed by it's guild. You should seriously seek another family which encourages your character to grow to its fullest potential, not restricts it with overbearing attitudes in conflict to your own.
Also, although not strictly enforced at the moment, fighting in Hydlaa Plaza is illegal. Although allowed, the open carrying of weapons in such areas, I am sure, is discouraged by the powers that be. It is just my opinion, but for a guild rule to demand its members go against these wishes isn't the best RP in this, or any other world.
Sorry if I have gone a little off topic

Bolad
Patriarch to the
Marauders of Boreas