I can not connect either. It could be me though as 0.4.01 is my first install, and I haven't checked my router, but I have been installing games like mad these last few days, and they all had no problem getting online. Got the OpenAL.dll, and downloaded the fixed xml file (somehow I deleted the original, after I edited it?). Given it access through windows firewall, I think I opened up port 7777 correctly, or wrongly, but still open.