Silly me. As for being killed, you are aware that there are different styles of fighting, like bloody, normal, defensive, full defensive?
The buttons are located on the information panel.
Some monsters, like your robust rat, are stronger and know how to fight better than say some of the gobbles and the regular one eyed rat.
I have gotten in the habit of left clicking on the mob and then picking Defensive attack, you are attacking but defending. It buys you a little more time than just right clicking and selecting the swords (which is normal attack) to decide if your selected creature is worth the effort to fight.
You can switch modes of fight: Example, start out with a defensive attack, until the creature you are fighting is down to 20%, switch to bloody to finish it off quickly, OR start off normal and switch to full defensive to regain a few HP while still in battle with out stopping the battle.
The down side to the last is that monsters regenerate faster than you.
That may help you out with the death scene. I died several times until I figured it out myself.
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