Originally posted by Valbrandr
Why do so many feel the needs to take the side of the mods and gms?
Because just as there are those who have had nothing but negative experiences with Mods and GMs, there are those who have had nothing but positive. People tend to choose sides based on their experience first, and only once they reach an understanding of the other side, do those opinions begin to change. I don\'t see why it\'s hard to think that not everyone has a complaint against those with authority, even while the complaints of others may be valid.
For one, every gm or mod should not take offense because we are not outright accusing everyone. Just a select few who we have left, for the most part, unnamed.
If the complaints are not against the GM/Mod system entirely but against a select few people, there must be a better way of dealing with it. Vague threads achieve very little but eat away at the nerves of all parties. I will have to go with Kiern\'s suggestion of a sub-forum as well. Many forums of successful games have a section where individuals can voice complaints against GM behavior - and this way instead of involving those that are uninvolved, the only parties to attempt to resolve the issues will be the players and GMs/Mods. There are no doubts that players may experience difficulty with resolving issues in-game, and not everyone has access to IRC (or feels it is worth downloading an entire client for a single GM issue). So my vote goes in the subforum direction, if it even means anything. The least we can do is try it out, and go back if it doesn\'t work.
Are there really so many naive people around here that they can deny that some abuse has occured?
I don\'t think anyone here has denied anything, and you probably realize this.
Just count the number of people who have left this community because of it. Too many in the ten months I have been here.
While we are a closely-knit community for the
most part, everyone does not know everyone else. Several who have left the game were not regulars on the forum, or those who were on the forums rarely showed up in-game. So not everyone is familiar with who left and who didn\'t. Occasional goodbye-threads do pop up here and those are the ones that are remembered most clearly. However, I myself am unaware of the numbers you probably have in mind, and I don\'t think you can place much blame in anyone for this ignorance.
And please, to anyone else who is going to post after me, dont say, \"Well you can just leave if you dont like it.\" Why, because a few would like to complain about it? Thats what Eiffell was told... If he didnt like the fact that his name was changed... he could just leave and find another community. That is not fair. He was just wondering why his name was changed. Thats it. He didnt come out and attack anyone, actually he was quite polite.
Very polite, in fact much more polite than the people who posted after him trying to defend his right to his name. He accepted the decision of the GM who renamed him, while others continued to argue for his case. I\'m not stating that we should have no freedom at all to discuss such issues, but if the person to originally start the discussion has pretty much ended that specific issue, I believe there are no further reasons to continue it.