This has become a thread of hatred and finger-pointing, and it fills me with sad. I do not feel that more posts will add anything new, so I hope no one minds if I end it right now.
Kythag, your choice - though I\'ve noticed that you want to leave the forums only and not the entire community, so there is some relief. However, any forum requires its posters to grow a thick skin - for among large groups of individuals, arguments and debates and disagreements sprout a-plenty. It shouldn\'t be enough to push anyone away. I have experienced so many moments myself when an individual here or there seemed to have been determined to drive me mad ;) More often than not it was just a misunderstanding, and I\'ve gained a lot more from staying.
May it be the same for you.