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« Reply #30 on: March 04, 2006, 04:55:29 pm »
*Clears her throat seeing that there is no female presence on this thread* Ummm... nightstalian really important question. How long have you been friends with her?
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« Reply #31 on: March 04, 2006, 05:26:03 pm »
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*Clears her throat seeing that there is no female presence on this thread* Ummm... nightstalian really important question. How long have you been friends with her?

time matters not on the wheel of love.
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« Reply #32 on: March 04, 2006, 05:38:28 pm »
*smiles* Well I would beg to differ and if you have only known her for a short while then I could see why she would distance herself if she wasn\'t interested.

If you have known her for a long time then perhaps maybe she is taking time away because she feels akward. (nothing wrong with that) Maybe she is upset that bringing these feelings to her attention has messed up her friendship with you, and she maybe upset with you for it.  As you said time matters not ...so then you must now play the waiting game. She may or may not come back. If your friendship was strong then she will. If you only knew her for a week well then it is understandable she won\'t be coming back....
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« Reply #33 on: March 04, 2006, 07:02:45 pm »
oh boy this should be interesting... been there done that and got the t-shirt and the marks on my forhead where i hit it. In alot of cases this sort of thing ends up with a dating thing happening... although im quite worried that you said you \"love\" her. Personally i only say love to people when im joking and they know im joking (say friend and random people...also people who hate me :D) or to someone i totally mean it too... and since last time i did for real i met queen ego from hell 2.0 i have no plans in saying it for a long time


*looks over what he said*


oook ranted there... anyways what i mean is take it slow... dont get over clingy, dont start growling at all her ex boyfriends saying your going to break there jaw\'s like an idiot. just live and learn about the person first :)


yea i dont make sence...:P
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« Reply #34 on: March 04, 2006, 09:30:07 pm »
Err something is not quite right here :) for some strange reason (probably lemon based) I find myself agreeing with Sep\'s first statements and disagreeing with the last, I think it makes perfect sense.
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« Reply #35 on: March 04, 2006, 10:28:27 pm »
I think respecting her wishes may be best...and then setting fire to a bag of dogy doo outside her front door...every sunday for a week :D

I don\'t know, seeing as none of us know what she is going through in her life, perhaps it is best just to back off for a little while but make it clear that she can always come back to you, even just for friendship.

She is a redhead, isn\'t she?

And if she isn\'t then she is just really good and dyeing her hair or something....


ummm

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« Reply #36 on: March 05, 2006, 12:35:24 am »
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I think respecting her wishes may be best...and then setting fire to a bag of dogy doo outside her front door...every sunday for a week :D

I don\'t know, seeing as none of us know what she is going through in her life, perhaps it is best just to back off for a little while but make it clear that she can always come back to you, even just for friendship.

She is a redhead, isn\'t she?

And if she isn\'t then she is just really good and dyeing her hair or something....


ummm

*poof*  (Last post for atleast a month, I promise, I only happen to come upon this thread while reading Karyuu\'s post BEGGING me to come back...yep...that is what happened... >.> <.<)

yeah she knows how to dye her hair
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« Reply #37 on: March 05, 2006, 02:43:06 pm »
ok i hate the f***** b**** now.   I hate most girls.

you dont neeed her,and she isnt worth s**t and you know it.

she is a traiting unsesitive b***h and you can do with out.

alot are.

better friends out there.

hope you feel better.
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« Reply #38 on: March 05, 2006, 02:49:55 pm »
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and the friendship is over, and she doesn\'t want me around her because it would feel \"akward\".




My advice to you:  FORGET ABOUT HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.  If this is her reaction, then she\'s an energy sucker.  The following adjectives may also apply:  Manipulative, shallow, juvenile, insecure, dishonest.

At least you have a clear answer though!  Sounds like she couldn\'t have been that good a friend in the first place.
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« Reply #39 on: March 06, 2006, 12:51:53 am »
Actually, parents can answer such questions better than most kids can... well, they were teens once too!
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« Reply #40 on: March 06, 2006, 01:17:32 am »
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Actually, parents can answer such questions better than most kids can... well, they were teens once too!




Oh god no.... don\'t go to your parents with questions about your love life.  They\'re incapable of being objective.
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« Reply #41 on: March 06, 2006, 01:18:00 am »
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and the friendship is over, and she doesn\'t want me around her because it would feel \"akward\".




My advice to you:  FORGET ABOUT HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.  If this is her reaction, then she\'s an energy sucker.  The following adjectives may also apply:  Manipulative, shallow, juvenile, insecure, dishonest.

At least you have a clear answer though!  Sounds like she couldn\'t have been that good a friend in the first place.

I couldn\'t forget about an angel
I was apathidic before I met her
I became someone when we became friends

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*smiles* Well I would beg to differ and if you have only known her for a short while then I could see why she would distance herself if she wasn\'t interested.

If you have known her for a long time then perhaps maybe she is taking time away because she feels akward. (nothing wrong with that) Maybe she is upset that bringing these feelings to her attention has messed up her friendship with you, and she maybe upset with you for it.  As you said time matters not ...so then you must now play the waiting game. She may or may not come back. If your friendship was strong then she will. If you only knew her for a week well then it is understandable she won\'t be coming back....


I knew her better then anyone, so it wasn\'t all that of a surpise.
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« Reply #42 on: March 06, 2006, 01:25:26 am »
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I couldn\'t forget about an angel



You\'ve already seen that she isn\'t an angel.
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« Reply #43 on: March 06, 2006, 01:57:30 am »
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I couldn\'t forget about an angel



You\'ve already seen that she isn\'t an angel.

And do you know her...
I like to look for the better sides of people....


,as when I see president bush I see the devil( LOL)yes I live in america.
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« Reply #44 on: March 06, 2006, 02:06:15 am »
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I knew her better then anyone, so it wasn\'t all that of a surpise.


Then I wish you the best and do not worry I am sure after sometime she will come to her senses. It is a known fact that best friends do need a break from one and other from time to time. Maybe this is just one of those times.
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