Aye, all who participated should take a moment to reflect on the meaning of death in our land. Laanx or Talad might strike any of us down for coming to accept the drudgery of the Death Realm as a fact of our mundane lives, and actually having the audacity to not cower in fear at the thought of going there, or *gasp* do anything other than trying to get out.
In fact, we should add a thread to the wishlist and INSIST that when our characters die in Yliakum the character data, tria, silverweave, and all, be flushed from the database forever, and we must create a new character to roleplay if we want back in. Oh, and of course that character would not even so much as be aware of the friends the dead character knew. Sound good? No? Awe, come now, there has to be consequences for running up to a big, furry, ugly, beastie with huge claws and poking it with a saber, it wouldn't be good RP, otherwise.
Until they implement that request, I'd say that maybe it's not so awful for some of us to actually not mind going to such a foreboding place on purpose occasionally, or otherwise coming to view the DR with any sense of familiarity, acquiescence, or perhaps even acceptance.
But then maybe I'm being a being a bad RP'er?