Ah here is where it get's tricky, my router does not go to the internet, it only goes to my home network. My modem is direct connected through USB, I've had other programs do this "misguessing" on connections before. My main PC is the one I'm trying to connect with, all other pc's are off at the moment. Does XP give it's connections a hidden priority? Possibly my latency is so high that the client just plain gives up before recieving what it needs to confirm/deny the server status.