Agreed, unfortunately. The other day an enki who seemed quite skilled in RP was attempting to get involved, but most ignored him, I tried to help but was being hassled at the same time irl so it was a bit difficult. To be honest, I had similar problems when first starting the game, while everyone was willing to show me the sewers and where to train, jumping into an RP was far more difficult. Fortunately I:
a) managed to find one of those popular players who basically greets all newcomers warmly, and introduces them to others
b) decided to be really assertive, and jump at every opportunity to RP, almost forcing my way in some of the time
It shouldn't be that hard though, you all wonder why there are so many "1337's" around. Everyone's willing to help with the OOC part, but not the IC part, it's not exactly complicated.