They're opinions, not demands. If mine, or any other player's, succint attempts at expressing our ideas sound uptight, then it is because the person listening must be taking them defensively right from the start. And that's not such a big deal, as most of us will ignore incoherent retaliations. It would be alot worst if we would have to fake our true thoughts with needless nicety and dishonest sympathy.
In fact, I believe the PS Community is better than it has ever been, as I haven't noticed much babbling of late in forums where babbling shouldn't exist. Such as this one. Lately the discussions I witness are usually positive, even if heated, contributing with good thought material. My congratulations to all of you, while I'm at it.
And Zan, what you mentioned was basicly what myself, and some others, have been claiming as well: Take your time creating the guild, earn reputation, values and method; don't expect people to trust you when you have Narure. Some of us would also add, in a kind or harsh way, depending on the person's personaility, "You should change the name as the current one sounds too big headed and official when it's not."