I'm sorry to hear that, but if you really want people to take you serious, you are going to want to abide by my suggestions.
As for my ability to make it on anyone's list, honestly, I'm not trying. Couldn't care one way or the other who's list I'm on/not on. I'd like it if we could all be one be happy family, but I acknowledge that probably won't ever happen, and as such not everyone is going to like me. However, I do believe that over all, most people do find myself to be quite helpful to them. If I was not, then I doubt I would still be a moderator.