I will try to summarize your story:
"I could not find a map, finally asked someone, who told me where to get one. Great, I got a map!"
"Died and got lost in the dead realm. Finally asked someone, who took the time to show me the way out. Thanks!"
"Got hurt by a rat, and did not know how to heal myself quicker than sitting their waiting. Asked some other new players (they seem to frequent rat infested places) until finally someone not only healed me, but stayed to help me kill rats for a while and then went out of his way to show me where to sell the loot, and get some decent weapons. Thanks!"
I see a pattern here.
"After playing a day, I still am not able to buy the cool stuff others bought after playing for much longer"
"I am new, but want to skip the stuff all others are doing before they start crafting. I want to know how to make a fortune crafting, and besides, why do I not start with a fortune so I can buy all crafting skills at once?"
And finally:
"Role playing would be much better without all the pipes in the sewers."
Well, I cannot help you with the last one, but maybe the answer to the middle part follows from the pattern in the first. The first standard answer given when you have a question is not 'read the manual', or 'check the forums' but 'ask other characters (both players and NPCs) in game, in a nice and friendly way'.

You already learned that that works, it may also allow you to see past the pipes and enjoy role playing more, especially if you also talk to other characters when you do not need their help.
I know starting this game as a new player can be a bit difficult, but you already seem to have come past all the obstacles most people get stuck at at first (where are rats, how to get out of this terrible dark place). You even seem to like the death realm

. If after that you still think you should have a map and an easy way to make money (and it will get easier quickly anyway), and to be able to enjoy a pipeless scenery, preferably by not talking to others, then maybe this game just is not for you. Otherwise, go to the tavern and have a beer. It may even heal your wounds

p.s. Some replies were posted while I was typing. Haven't read those yet. Also, I used to used many more smileys in my posts, but I only see three here. Please read this as if there are many more
