In my mind this situation doesn't really point out any major flaw in the devs coding work, etc. but more an example of less than stellar, for lack of a better term, public relations. While I feel certain that given enough time the talented people working on PS can figure out a way to fix this quest crash limitation and any other bugs/annoyances/etc. The thing that really stands out to me is that a polite response like Bereror gave (see below, important points highlighted) explaining the situation would probably have caused the whole dialog that lead up to the "whiny bitch" comment/potential hurt feelings/frustration to never even occur.
I know that people that work on this project are volunteers (and sometimes put up with a lot of crap from players suffering from a major sense of entitlement) but like it our not, if a person is a dev or a GM they are an ambassador for Planeshift. People are human, people have bad days, sometimes people get frustrated and call people names. This is just a fact of life but, next time it may be better to toss that drafted response out before clicking the "submit" button and drafting a new response that isn't simply going to antagonize a person or escalate the situation needlessly.
I'm not sure if this already exists or not but, it seems to me that it may not be a half-bad idea to create some sort of short manual (When Everybody Wants Something From You: Dealing with the Impossible to Satisfy Public

) that not only reminds the "ambassadors" of this project that very rarely does the person doing the name calling end up looking like the more rational and bigger person but, also has standard responses for those complaints that disgruntled players/former players always seem to use in an attempt to start a massive flame war. i.e "This Project isn't Really Opensource!!!1111, The GMs are corrupt and banned my grandmother!"
Anyway, just my two tria.

Thanks for reading.
Ver,
This is not a broken quest, but a limitation in our engine and there is nothing that Jeraphon can do about it. He has done a great job adding new quests and fixing existing ones, but he can't change the limitations in the engine. One day the engine will be improved and things get better. Until then, just take a deep breath, wait couple of hours and life will be as good as it was 