Indeed, this is where you went wrong:
(18:54:53) Abelia Aruine says: In addition I will give you a tip: if you get stuck somewhere due to some game bug, you will want to type /unstick to return you to a safe location. When you are done giving things a try, select me and tell me that you are ready for more.
(18:55:11) Sittingbull says: yes
If you had just paid a little more attention, you could've saved yourself 3 days time

Also, when you have created your name and continued to the "Paths" or "Custom" phase of character creation, the game asks you if you are *very* sure your name applies to the naming rules. It seems you clicked past that too.
Not PlaneShift's fault

But, alas, you are welcome to return when you feel you are finally ready to take this game on.