This place was far less silly while you were gone, the silliness subsided gradually but not completely.
I do hope you haven't tired of being here yet, the silliness quotient has been rising since your return.
I'm just afraid it will reach a stage as it did before and get quashed.
Silliness is not always all it is cracked up to be, and some people prefer that seriousness prevail.
Not every comment is meant to be a challenge that must be defeated. Often it is just imprecise wording that makes it seem so.
That's not the full story, obviously. You've been banned a few times as well, for flame baiting, going off topic, etc.

People arguing over opinions can definitely hurt a forum's culture if people aren't willing to learn from others and approach discussions with an open mind and heart. When people aren't willing to admit they're wrong about something, it's bad for everyone.
But
flame baiting and
personal attacks are in a different category. Sometimes, people make posts with no intent other than to
cause trouble and to
offend people. I consider posts such as those to be problems, and the people who make them are problem posters.
It's good that you believe in civility. We should get along just dandy if we can remind ourselves of all we have in common.
