For them it's just that others games work and PS doesn't..so it must be PS' fault. And telling them that the real problem is in the drivers won't help them a bit if they are already using the latest drivers. Those people come here to get help and all they get is a "We can't do anything, it must be your computer".
it's not an "it must be your computer", most of the time it's an *it is* your driver/hardware which is recognizable in the backtrace.
anyway, as for the "other games manage to get around it": other games have a lot more ressources behind it to get rid of such things. the whole engine team(make it ps+cs) is pretty small after all and none works full time on this, so you really cannot expect the same you'd expect from a commercial game(however, that's just my 2 cents).
These posts and bugreports should be a chance to pin down the problem and find a way around it. Saying "But it works fine for all devs" isn't exactly what makes people feel helped so that they stay with PS. If it's not possible to solve the problem from only the infos provided in the bugreports/posts then there maybe should be a strategy to acquire the needed infos that doesn't need the user to be a programmer or at least being proficient with the use of a debugger.
there is such a strategy: answer the questions the developers/testers ask in the reports and if no solution can be found like that, join on irc and discuss it with a dev - just like weltall already outlined it in here.
I already had to close several reports because the users were totally unresponsive and didn't answer even a simple question after over a month.
For ATI I have to trust you...not really hard since I always bought nvida cards exactly because of their pretty good openGL support. But that's again the same problem. The ATI drivers are buggy, nothing new. It was like this for years now and I wouldn't expect it to change soon. So there isn't much choice but to work around those bugs or do without the players that have an ATI card.
the drivers are improving since a while now, however - true - they won't change overnight. but at least issues are faster resolved than the intel ones

as a little summary:
I really can't strengthen often enough: if you want an issue to be resolved, you have to make a proper report or even better join on irc and directly chat with a dev
it's a lot easier to get the required information that way and tbh: you can count the users actually doing that on one hand - at least from my experiences so far
(that is not counting those joining - asking whether anyone is around and leaving the second after this)