geoni didn't report the entire thing anyway for me whispers should be in main not in tell with a different radius. there was also the idea of selectable voice strength the problem of it is making an interface.
i think everyone would love a whisper which is invisible to everyone in real life: is it so?
i can only imagine the mass of students who would use it 
Here is just a portion of one of the arguments that we had, just to "report" what had been said and how I know you aren't going to let this "tell disable" thing happened:
[01:49] <@weltall> well i'm not going to copy and paste tell to make whispers you can forget that
(The statement above is what tells me this isn't going to happen. I'm sure that it is SO hard to copy and paste some code that has already been written.)
[01:56] <@weltall> really many "rp features" are just absurd to think about
[01:57] <@weltall> i had things like area based inventories
[01:57] <@weltall> invisible labels
[01:57] <@weltall> copying a feature just to add a slightly difference
[01:57] <Geoni> It's absurd to think that RP features aren't important in a RP game...or what used to be a RP game.
[01:57] <@weltall> almost imperceptible
[01:57] <Illysia> No, you disagree with RP mentality.
[01:58] <@weltall> no that's not rp mentality
[01:58] <Illysia> The problem is that RP fell out of fashion and tragically even in RP games...
[01:58] <@weltall> it's covered mentality
[01:58] <@weltall> you think only of "nice shiny this"
[01:58] <Illysia> Yes it is weltall. You simple disagree with it.
[01:58] <@weltall> but you don't look at all the conseguences of your ideas
[01:58] <Illysia> No, otherwise we'd be happy with mounts.
[01:58] <Illysia> weltall, look at player numbers before you talk consequences of action.

[01:59] <@weltall> an x,y based inventory is unusable
[01:59] <@weltall> and if it was for me i'd even go to a list based inventory
[01:59] <Illysia> What are talking about?
[01:59] <@weltall> about some of the great ideas which came out recently
[02:00] <@weltall> full cloaking with no player name label => griefing
[02:01] <Illysia> That doesn't mean it was suggested by a decent RPer...
[02:01] <Illysia> Obviously not all ideas work but all ideas get tossed out just the same.
[02:01] <@weltall> no? didn't look like that from the community
[02:02] <@weltall> tell with radius is quite weird
[02:02] <@weltall> but personally i always used main to whisper
(At this statement above: it is easy to tell that you code only what
you want and prefer, over what most players don't.)
[02:02] <Illysia> No, it's like sounds not traveling the full length of the city.
[02:02] <@weltall> and yes i find people who can't rp and have hears who let them hear from the other side of the city
[02:02] <@weltall> but that's another thing
[02:02] <Illysia> If people respect the whisper then fine but many fine that hard.
[02:03] <@weltall> then you are confused because a more limited radius say is not the same as a tell
[02:03] <@weltall> which is a private message
[02:04] <Illysia> The basic problem is that there are already too many OOC features.
[02:04] <@weltall> the whole game is an ooc feature it runs in a screen

Things didn't get much better from this point on but if anybody wants to waste their time reading the rest of the almost pointless argument you can see it here:
http://pastebin.com/keXk45xj