Illysia's right, usually we start bickering when the thread's dead already. Not what happened in one of the threads, but that was an isolated happening. As far as the "I Need Help" thread is concerned, Catlemur got his response multiplied by 10 in the first 10 minutes. Also, requesting for new Quests should be a kind of wish...
I think that if you input some actual on-topic information, then the post isn't actually off-topic. It just has additional info. Like... Let's say... Advertising the Dark Empire in the middle of this post, which is great since it's an awesome organization.
Plus I believe it's all about moderation as in the "quality of being moderated." Things aren't black and white, they're less or more grey. If someone's abusing (like it did happen in the "I Need Help..." thread, even though it had expired its usefulness), there should be intervention as far as moderating is concerned. If it's just punctual, it's not really a problem. Aiwendil mate, chill.