"Both not equal" is opinion. I agree, but perhaps not equalists?
To help: Aiwendil mentioned irrational fury, and is correct. Most people may take it as a restriction of the absolute freedom that an RP game can offer. Because a '2nd' world does offer that, but without legal limitations: one can kill, steal, commit criminal acts without repercussion to their actual physical self. People can commit sexual acts, deviance, or other things that the morality of society would object to, but in an RP game are repercussionless save to a few pixels. That being said, there will always be players that champion absolute freedom to RP.
BUT!
I don't condone it. I do, in a sense, I suppose, because once you start sanctioning a 2nd world through OOC rules, it becomes less and less of a realistic world. But in reality, we also have to be mindful, as mentioned by Illysia and Aiwendil, of the consequences to the other pixels and to the players behind them. It's delicacy at its finest, because we risk alienation or in more drastic cases ridding ourselves of the players we offend. Also, and do note; we're still bound by society, OOCly. We're better served as Illysia states, 'being nice', rather than ignoring the outcome. Of course
a.) Ignoring the outcome (as you coined) = RP freedom,
but -
b.) Being nice (more wordily I shall assume we both mean the respect of others preferences and the working towards less criminal tendencies as a whole, as a way to improve PS's settingsphere to create a more 'norm' society as it should be reflected.) preserves sanity, prevents anarchy, and gives a solid ground for variety of RP.
Doubtless, we shall be inundated with interpretations. But as a whole, I'm glad for these threads, even if they pop up at least once a year, because 7 years ago I stumbled across one, and reading the great opinions and realizations of players such as ourselves provided a solid foundation for me, I would like to believe.