The update to all my ranting is that I did FINALLY get the Winch access ( even wrote a single story post on that ), and now have the Rivnak I wanted so very much.
My conclusion is this : This game is MUCH MUCH better now that I have both the rivnak for riding with friends as RP ( not just a faster way to travel ), and access to a place that I think adds special vistas, places and views that I also have been able to share in RP.
I STILL HAVE NO IDEA why this had to be so so so so dm frustrating to have... and forget me doing another quest. My best suggestion, for new characters, before anything else you do, achieve this first .. and then all the rest of the RP will be so much more for you... if you want to quest as the frustration mongers seem to love, then you can do them so much better as well.
La Crank