Originally posted by Karyuu
To be the respected and contributing member of the community that you yearn for so much, your duties include reporting those that disobey our rather necessary rules.
I already have the respect of those I respect.
I create art, I teach, I inspire, I encourage and help, and I provoke thought.
Sure, if I see someone who is named George Bush, something crude and sexual, or disruptive to play, I will act to remove the problem.
But I have seen the GMs that think as you do, obsessively change names like Carpe Noctem, that do not offend, are not famous, and do not interfere with play in any way.
That unnecessary cure is worse than the disease.
To change a name, very seriously interferes with play.
You tell me that I have a duty to help you do that to players who have caused no trouble whatever.
I think not.
I would have to be a GM or a forum moderator, to have duties.
I do not want to be either one.
I came here to create and to play, not to control people.
Originally posted by Karyuu
I just love when this happens. The same people who tell others how to play, and yell loudest about RP, do not understand that if you really RP, it is no longer just a game.
This is a mistake I have seen many people make, and have made numerous times myself. Thankfully I am now past the stage where my character and I get into the same emotional woes and drama, because we are separate beings.
So your solution to the intensity of your feelings was to detatch from them?
You do know, don\'t you, that if you and your character are separate beings, then you are schizophrenic? I think you probably mean losing control, or losing track of what parts are real and what are fiction, instead.
Originally posted by Karyuu
Roleplaying yourself, or getting so emotionally caught up in the game, is a very, very unhealthy thing to do, Verrliit.
Nothing unhealthy about it, at all. Though your character is fiction, your interaction with other players is very real indeed. There is nothing wrong with feeling, no matter how intense it gets.
Yes, the character\'s life is fiction. But if you RP, the emotions are as real as RL, by definition. You do not just play-act, cowboys and indians, or Barbie-doll style. You live the story that you create, while you are within the world of Yliakum.
It is losing the boundary between reality and fiction, that is unhealthy. It is not unhealthy to be passionate, or to have emotions. Just the opposite. It is unhealthy to suppress them.
I had the incredible good fortune to have fallen in love, as Verrliit, and had an affair that lasted for months. The love was real, and reciprocated, and there was not, and never will be, anything wrong with feeling love, or sorrow or joy or anything else.
I appreciate your concern for my safety, Karyuu. I do play to the extremes of what I am able to do.
But I am not confused. I know the difference between my fantasy and the real world. I have been doing Role-play for more than thirty years.
Verrliit