Zorbels, you speak my mind. I, too, read Suno's post as jealousy. I know similar reactions on Rilar's "popularity" (i hate that word), but in (PlaneShift-) RP, as I always emphasize, everyone is ones own dungeon master and responsible for the own fun, but also that everyone participating has just as much fun.
Fun however is a wide field. A good RPer is able to make others laugh in one minute, cry in the other, build up a horrible scaring scenery and noone knowing what could happen in the next second, raise other peoples curiousity in order to make them _ask_, directing the attention on specific things.
However, in an RP session theres always one or the other person trying to demonstrate skills, to be in the spotlight. As good RPer you need to give them this opportunity, take a step back, give up the spotlight for a minute. This gesture shows more generousity than anything and is most appreciated. You will gain real respect as RPer only by such gestures.
On the "only as GM you can do good events" I have to respond as GM: not true.
Everything a GM can do can be improvised in RP. It only takes phantasy and effort to develop a workaround. As Rilar, I ran a number of "events" without GM help at all, drawing just as much attention than "official" events. However, it is true that you'll need help to run good events. But there my advise is to get over the jealousy and ask exactly those "popular" persons you ranted about. They probably will be able to help you, if not with ideas, then with their "popularity" (asking more people to help in).
About the boredom:
PS can be the most boring place on earth.. *pokes Ralas with the memory of doing nonsense in the "corner of fools"* and it can be the most challenging, interesting, even exhausting place on earth. I myself needed to take brakes from RP as it become simply too much for me to bare.
As already in another thread said: try to get involved with other peoples RP; if you know someone who is known as good RPer, work out a plotidea and present it to him/her, realise it with help. Take on help, but don't expect it.