* Proglin hops in this thread
tadaaaaaaaa!
Ok, I do not intend to brag, but i know a thing or two about the so called duelling etiquettes since I hosted a couple of tournaments and have done quite a few duels. Duels are fun, and are meant to increase the amount of RP possabillities and increase the fun for some in PS. There's two ways you can go about when it comes to duelling.
You go challenge at random. Most of the time, these people loose a lot and come complaining afterwards you didn't tell them you got sword level 80, a load of potions and stat enhancing weapons combined with a brand new silverweave short sword. Well people, you were wrong. It is concidered not so nice, but is far from illegal. In fact, YAY for the one that used all that stuff, he clearly is the better fighter showing his knwledge of warfare by using stronger material and taking as much as he/she can out of what the game has to offer. Clearly, he/she read Sun-tzu or Musashi.
You think before you actThinking before you act, yes... I know it's tough, but I assure you it's do-able. It's soemthing I had to learn, and for some weird reason, it took a MMORPG to teach me how. Someone challenges you to a duel, You decline. You send him a tell saying you would like to duel him as well, but set some rules at first. Then you and him/her start setting up a set of rules for that specific Duel. Some rules, that might be nice in order to throw an exciting, fun increasing duel might be: No potions, one shield, one normal weapon, and a certain area in which you shall both stay, as soon as this area is left, the duel is won by the other. Ofcourse, this relies on honesty and trust, but will work out most of the time. Most likely, these people will do well in a tournament.
Hoping to have given some useful information... bibble.