Pardon me Datruth, but you don't know what you are taking about. Do you live only in computer games and never go outside? In such case i'm not suprised that you are telling BS. But i have a news for you, a computer game is made basing on the reality, not the other side. Especially PS is. So, go on fresh air with your "real" friend, you take 0,5m stick and to your friend give 1,5m stick and start fighting. I wish you luck in hitting him, before he hit you. Of course hit means you are dead, deeply wounded or dying so the fit ends, because it is how it is.
Zanzibar, none of this is in game, so this are suggestions. I think good ones, especially te one about comparing weapon skills.