This interest in gender differences seems odd to me. I am a DWARF, not a 'dwarfette' or a 'fwarf'. While other races might want to put their females into a different class or give them stupid diminuitive names. like 'lassie' or 'girl' (I am 148 years old, for goodness' sake!), we are
dwarfs - all dwarfs are equal in the great kinship. We all fight, we all work and we all drink in equal amounts. As I have said before on numerous occaisions the only discenrible difference between dwarf genders is that the females tend to be clean shaven.
* Arka checks her chin for stubble
For that reason, you will find few or no gender distictions in our speech - Stonebreaker has one word for the Race of dwarfs - 'Dverm' and an individual dwarf is 'Dwert' - male, female or indeterminate.
Other than that, I have no problem being refered to by my name. (I'll even let you call me 'Lady' Arka as a concession to your mannish obsession with titles and gender)
[OOC you might find this illuminating/humorous - not that I do! -
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dwarf#Female_dwarves - on the other hand I do find this amusing:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dwarfs_%28Discworld%29#Feminisation]
Arka Garam