Anyways, I would say in general the moderating is fine, though incredibly inconsistent (some things that shouldn't be deleted are and some things that should aren't) [...]
Seeing as how that's the second time inconsistency has been mentioned, I should ask for more details. Seems like a valid concern. Anything specific you can point out?
Now that you mention it, I
have seen some people get away with words like 'bull****' and 'b****rd', yet some
other people were censored for using the word 'queer'

See Nurahk's post. It's pretty obvious though, I'm surprised you're having such trouble with it.
I don't understand it. At all. You say you get that you're being an egotistical prat, yet you continue to be one and
still wonder why nobody ever sides with you, or does you any favours.
GMs/moderators/Devs/Admins/whatever else are
human beings, you can't operate under the mentality that you can hurl whatever abuse you want at them and they have to take it because they're 'part of the system'. Or whatever other rationale you use for being a gobshite all the time... The point is that being unlikeable and abrasive will never ever have a
positive effect on anything, unlike being a likable, charismatic fellow. How you treat people is how they treat you, it's the most basic knee-jerk reaction humans have. I punch you, you punch me. I joke with you, you joke with me. That's how it works.