I clearly stated in my post that the drivers for that device were update . . . . .but I followed the link and re-installed the latest driver for it anyways, like you told me to. Needless to say this did not solve the problem. Perhaps it's not graphics related, since I had no issues with the main game (at least up to the connection screen) with the exception that it told me to run my updater. My thoughts on the matter were:
1) Could it be an issue of compatibility with Vista? - thus I read the entire thread, and people did not seem to have Vista related issues, and posted my problem in this thread.
2) Could it be an issue of drivers? - i found the only thing that looked remotely like a video card and made sure it was up to date.
3) Could it be an issue of my firewall? - I made sure the updater and main game were on the exceptions list.
Any help would be appreciated.
EDIT: The poster in the end of this thread:
http://hydlaa.com/smf/index.php?topic=28988.0 seems to have had the same problems. Since you told him to post system specs I'm going to do the same.
Processor: Intel(R) Core(TM)2 CPU 1.73 GHz
Memory (RAM): 2038 MB
System Type: 32-bit Operating System
I hope this is the info you were asking for.