Charima is equal on both sides. It is eqaul parts observer and observed. As I have siad before, a person alone has no charisma at all. You have no one to affect. You can not seem to grasp this concept. I have no misunderstanding.
That is just wrong. Even if I accepted the argument that it takes an observer and an observed which I do not the observer cannot help but observe himself unless he is completely sensory deprived. Even then he cannot help but experience himself unless he is brain dead in which case he hardly counts. Some people like themselves, others do not. Do you like yourself? Why?
No, charisma exists regardless of outside considerations. You are mistaking the perception of charisma with charisma itself. This is not a zen riddle, this tree makes noise.
Charisma is the meshing of two personalities to produce a reaction in both people, whatever those reactions may be. It can not be one set number. There are too many variations on how two personalities will mesh. The system treats all personalties as if they are the same. You have a CHA stat of 120. That means every single NPC is going to react the same to that stat. Every single spell is going to react exactly the same to that stat. It does not matter what type of charismatic personality you have, whether you are a nice guy or nasty.
The number that is applied to the charisma stat is the relative strength of the characteristic just like all the other stats. It does not give any indication as to the nature -- pleasing or perilous. The npcs cannot determine whether you are witty and gay or dark and brooding, the number gives them an indication of how much consideration they should give to you. There certainly are other factors that come into play in their determinations such as your beloved factions but of themselves they do not complete the picture.
Your understanding of my examples is simplistic in nature. You do not agree with me. However, those who do have a deeper understanding do agree with me.
Perhaps it was your examples that were overly simplistic.
And no, you are very wrong once again in judging me. You could not be futher off base. I do not care about grinding or training in this case. I care about things that are meant to affect my roleplay and gameplay. If someone has the ability to cast a 'high charisma' spell on me, they had better be able to back that stat up with some roleplay abilities. And with the high levels you can grind to without having to have any RP skills at all, I have serious doubts this will happen. If not, then there is a serious problem.
You do not care about training so it is expendable. Training is part of the game play, there is no system that allows you to specify anything that the game provides a mechanism for and it will only get more mechanisms added in the future. There will be less that you can fudge. If you are role playing that you have abilities that mechanisms are provided for without using those mechanisms you are in effect cheating. If you can cast a high level spell of any sort on me without even an actual glyph or even any system derived skill in that particular way then you are causing a serious problem. Are you going to role play that you did buddies quest that got you that phantom glyph that you are using to cast that spell or are you just going to "find it on the ground" when no one is looking? In either case you have no business casting that spell when the mechanics say you cannot.
Someone cannot cast an offensive high charisma spell on you unless you accept a challenge so if you automatically accept challenges you might want to reconsider. I would consider any spell that would cause you to lose control of your character as offensive and cannot at the moment think of a charm spell that could be cast upon you without your consent.
It appears to me that those who agree with you think PS is "A Night at the Improv" and not a role playing game.
If you are only role playing with others that think as you why do you care what the numbers are? The ones you can see are not the ones that you play in any event. Surely if you plan on ignoring any system that does not conform to your preconceptions you can ignore charisma. Just pretend it does not exist.
Perhaps I am misjudging you somewhat and you actually do level your characters. I cannot say for sure, I'll accept it if you confirm it. Your position leads me to think you generally do not. If you do then some of the things I say may be more off base than I think.