Vaka, I think i agree with you a 'little' bit, how a person turns out, be it enki, ylian whatever, depends on how they were raised, not all enki's were rasied in ojaveda, myself, was raised in the wilderness around hydlaa. If you are an enki, and you are raised among, lets say dermorians, your gonna grow more of a bond for them, then you are other enkis. Parents have influence as well, but what i think anyone can relate to, its the friends you have, the make the most difference.